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Rebooting in a Relationship

Has porn impacted your relationship or marriage? Talk about it here, seek support, and get advice. For partners of porn addicts and Fapstronauts undergoing reboot.

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  2. Moderation Team

    SOs (significant others): Check Out the SOS (Significant Others Support) Group!

    Moderation Team, Sep 16, 2022
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  3. Moderation Team

    Read this First: What is the Rebooting in a Relationship Section and what belongs here?

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  4.   » Forum Threads
  5. Acky31

    Trying to gain back my SOs trust

    Acky31, Mar 30, 2018 ... 31 32 33
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    75,940
    ZenYogi
    Oct 24, 2022
  6. Warfman

    Marriage issues while trying to reboot

    Warfman, Nov 17, 2022 ... 27 28 29
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    562
    Views:
    48,997
    Warfman
    Apr 4, 2024
  7. Warren of fleabags

    New journal

    Warren of fleabags, May 2, 2023 ... 25 26 27
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    538
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    68,958
    Warren of fleabags
    Sep 13, 2024 at 12:42 AM
  8. Blondewife

    My Journey to Happiness and Peace

    Blondewife, Mar 23, 2015 ... 19 20 21
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    416
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    24,141
    ZenYogi
    Oct 24, 2022
  9. anewhope

    My situation - apologies if this turns into a long post

    anewhope, Jun 23, 2017 ... 18 19 20
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    19,217
    ZenYogi
    Oct 24, 2022
  10. WillSquirrel

    A squirrely Journal

    WillSquirrel, Dec 8, 2017 ... 14 15 16
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    317
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    21,693
    ZenYogi
    Oct 24, 2022
  11. Nicko Stretch

    Working towards an honest intimacy - my reboot log.

    Nicko Stretch, Oct 7, 2019 ... 13 14 15
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    295
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    36,282
    Hyperlord
    Feb 22, 2024
  12. mrtumnus

    Making a Better Marriage

    mrtumnus, Jul 22, 2019 ... 13 14 15
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    283
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    20,465
    Nicko Stretch
    Feb 10, 2020
  13. RedeemedIowan

    NO PMO & Abstinent Relationship

    RedeemedIowan, Feb 5, 2018 ... 11 12 13
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    240
    Views:
    10,943
    goodnice
    Jun 30, 2018
  14. ParvusSapentia

    Rejected by wife

    ParvusSapentia, Jun 10, 2017 ... 10 11 12
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    238
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    13,119
    Katrina Rose
    Mar 8, 2018
  15. Chaos Spayce Marine

    Broke up with my girlfriend over fears over future, worried now that porn could have contributed

    Chaos Spayce Marine, Mar 23, 2024 ... 10 11 12
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    227
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    21,057
    Real Jerry Seinfeld
    Sep 15, 2024 at 1:10 AM
  16. SpouseofPA

    is this common?

    SpouseofPA, Sep 25, 2017 ... 10 11 12
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    227
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    10,878
    Deleted Account
    Nov 17, 2017
  17. TryingHard2Change

    Looking to start a group for husbands trying to be worthy of your wife's trust again

    TryingHard2Change, Nov 25, 2017 ... 9 10 11
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    10,493
    MovingFoward86
    Mar 26, 2018
  18. TheWife

    My journal - stories from The Wife of a porn addict

    TheWife, Sep 13, 2015 ... 9 10 11
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    204
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    22,353
    hopingthereishope
    Feb 29, 2020
  19. 1dayattatime

    My F'd up relationship

    1dayattatime, Mar 30, 2019 ... 8 9 10
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    12,447
    hope4healing
    Sep 10, 2019
  20. Gamerwife85

    Suffering wife seeks support as her marriage (and life) gets put back together

    Gamerwife85, Jun 27, 2015 ... 8 9 10
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    190
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    13,716
    Handzfree
    May 2, 2016
  21. Warfman

    SOs feelings and thoughts through their partners Addiction/Recovery

    Warfman, May 8, 2023 ... 7 8 9
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    6,669
    Warfman
    May 30, 2023
  22. RiverBlue

    Telling the Wife

    RiverBlue, Feb 22, 2021 ... 6 7 8
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    156
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    16,210
    Addictus
    Apr 20, 2022
  23. Deleted Account

    Did you want your partner to watch porn?

    Deleted Account, Jul 2, 2024 ... 6 7 8
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    151
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    6,933
    Wuugazi32
    Jul 29, 2024
  24. freedomrun

    Is this what men think?

    freedomrun, Aug 13, 2018 ... 6 7 8
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    7,732
    MerseyPhoenix
    Apr 16, 2020
  25. RyanRVA

    What men need to know about choosing a woman.

    RyanRVA, Jun 27, 2015 ... 6 7 8
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    140
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    8,655
    AlltheRageBackHome
    Aug 28, 2015
  26. Ineedhelp321

    Sex after baby

    Ineedhelp321, Sep 4, 2018 ... 5 6 7
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    128
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    5,558
    UnhappilyMarried
    Sep 19, 2018
  27. Deleted Account

    SOs, what are you most angry about?

    Deleted Account, Jul 16, 2023 ... 5 6 7
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    126
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    7,519
    Sad_wife
    Sep 14, 2024 at 1:53 AM
  28. Deleted Account

    sex frequency question

    Deleted Account, Aug 3, 2017 ... 5 6 7
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    122
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    9,400
    Deleted Account
    Sep 21, 2019
  29. sheep4ryan

    marriage life and 20 years worth of Porn

    sheep4ryan, May 9, 2017 ... 5 6 7
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    120
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    6,709
    GG2002
    Oct 17, 2017
  30. PatientOx

    Told Gf about porn addiction, did not go well

    PatientOx, Jun 15, 2021 ... 4 5 6
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    117
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    7,685
    Psalm27:1my light
    Jul 27, 2021
  31. DireMerl

    Recently married seeks support for husbands pmo

    DireMerl, Oct 6, 2015 ... 4 5 6
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    8,441
    wanabefree
    Mar 26, 2016
  32. The Shift

    very first time here *journal*

    The Shift, Jul 24, 2024 ... 4 5 6
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    116
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    5,876
    The Shift
    Sep 13, 2024 at 7:27 AM
  33. Adidas trackies

    My Girlfriend cheated on me help

    Adidas trackies, Jul 8, 2019 ... 4 5 6
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    111
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    8,001
    Omeed
    Aug 24, 2019
  34. MarriedIn2013

    Need some advice to stop going to escorts & watching webcams

    MarriedIn2013, May 29, 2018 ... 4 5 6
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    110
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    6,456
    MarriedIn2013
    Jul 2, 2018
  35. NWRebooter

    My wife is so so angry...

    NWRebooter, Feb 10, 2024 ... 4 5 6
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    109
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    8,298
    used19
    Aug 27, 2024
  36. TooMuchTooSoon

    Making love or ?

    TooMuchTooSoon, Aug 19, 2017 ... 4 5 6
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    109
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    5,384
    samnf1990
    Aug 28, 2017
  37. SpouseofPA

    PA do you ever really forget?

    SpouseofPA, Nov 7, 2017 ... 4 5 6
    Replies:
    106
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    7,345
    Colin the Librarian
    Feb 23, 2018
  38. Deleted Account

    Ladies... a note about lubrication

    Deleted Account, Sep 26, 2017 ... 4 5 6
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    102
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    5,305
    Kenzi
    Dec 12, 2017
  39. MaKa

    The day my Marriage changed...

    MaKa, Feb 7, 2016 ... 4 5 6
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    102
    Views:
    7,895
    MaKa
    Jul 20, 2016
  40. LowKeeKee

    New Journal, New Journey

    LowKeeKee, Jun 22, 2018 ... 3 4 5
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    4,608
    LowKeeKee
    Oct 17, 2018
  41. GG2002

    Stamina: The lies that porn tells men

    GG2002, Aug 1, 2017 ... 3 4 5
    Replies:
    96
    Views:
    10,731
    Susannah
    Jan 22, 2019
  42. Letsrun123

    My husband is a porn addict.

    Letsrun123, May 3, 2016 ... 3 4 5
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    96
    Views:
    5,422
    ILoathePwife
    May 17, 2016
  43. Freeman...

    Sexless Relationship anyone?

    Freeman..., Nov 7, 2015 ... 3 4 5
    Replies:
    93
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    9,934
    WonderDNA
    Jun 18, 2016
  44. Acky31

    Starting again

    Acky31, Jan 14, 2021 ... 3 4 5
    Replies:
    92
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    7,924
    hope4healing
    Oct 25, 2022
  45. JustADude

    Stressed out and confused about sex with wife

    JustADude, Feb 10, 2020 ... 3 4 5
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    91
    Views:
    6,010
    fadedfidelity
    Mar 2, 2020
  46. MarinoBigFan1984

    Ladies only

    MarinoBigFan1984, Aug 22, 2017 ... 3 4 5
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    90
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    2,865
    Deleted Account
    Aug 25, 2017
  47. Deleted Account

    Do women feel pressured in relationships by porn?

    Deleted Account, Aug 18, 2024 ... 3 4 5
    Replies:
    89
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    3,398
    used19
    Sep 14, 2024 at 1:16 PM
  48. MJ Warrior 93

    I'm trying to win my ex back - My letter for her

    MJ Warrior 93, Feb 13, 2020 ... 3 4 5
    Replies:
    82
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    4,480
    MJ Warrior 93
    Feb 29, 2020
  49. Jizzle123

    Affairs and masturbation

    Jizzle123, Nov 5, 2017 ... 3 4 5
    Replies:
    82
    Views:
    4,944
    nayexcuses
    Nov 10, 2017
  50. The Strategist

    A very STRONG question to all the women on this forum

    The Strategist, Jun 8, 2018 ... 3 4 5
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    80
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    5,268
    Queenie%Bee
    Jun 30, 2018
  51. CowardlyLion

    CowardlyLion’s Relationship Reboot Journal

    CowardlyLion, Oct 23, 2018 ... 2 3 4
    Replies:
    79
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    4,191
    CowardlyLion
    Mar 10, 2019
  52. +TenPercent

    Why do our partners say we have "a big one" when it's just not true?

    +TenPercent, Mar 4, 2020 ... 2 3 4
    Replies:
    78
    Views:
    7,749
    Want to stop playing
    Mar 20, 2022
  53. Br1 R1

    Gaining more everyday! My Journal

    Br1 R1, Oct 9, 2018 ... 2 3 4
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    78
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    5,177
    Br1 R1
    Jul 22, 2019
  54. PastaTherapy

    Says She's Supportive...Then Isn't

    PastaTherapy, Sep 15, 2017 ... 2 3 4
    Replies:
    77
    Views:
    5,282
    Deleted Account
    Nov 26, 2017
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