Loss of interest in sex in women caused by male dysfunction

That sucks that they made it seem like the woman's fault. I know for me, if I don't feel desired I don't really want to even try to have sex. So when my husband shows interest in subtle ways I start getting more interested in showing him I'm interested. I personally don't want to make myself vulnerable after all this. Before Dday I was the one who initiated, who showed interest, and well was adventurous. I think it comes down to communication and compromise. It's no one's fault per se, it's more about lack of communication.

 

agreed. I might also add that both sides need to be over their own stuff enough to sufficiently care about the other person. in my marriage I think we both failed at that.

 

I saw the info-graphic from that same Brit study. I noticed the trend that anal sex was completely driven by age: the older the respondents the less likely they were to have engaged in it. I first thought was that has to be an impact of porn.

I also thought it interesting that the occurrence of oral sex was slightly, but significantly lower that vaginal sex across all ages. I would have thought them almost exactly the same.

 

Personally, my wife enjoys anal. She was disappointed when I said I wanted to do PIV only while I reboot.

 

Lube lots and lots of lube and go slow.

 

That's why I've never been able to have anal with other women, I couldn't fit in, even when they were enthusiastic about it. But what can I say, my wife enjoys it, and it can usually get in there.