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When will I have a wet dream ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by I'll never be the same, Sep 14, 2017.

  1. I'll never be the same

    I'll never be the same Fapstronaut

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    Hi everybody, it's almost my 20th day (in a few minutes) and that's weird but I feel like I'm gonna cum without even having an erection ! That's really disturbing ! There's so much pressure...
    So how long for having a wet dream ? I wish I had one to release the pressure...
     
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  2. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    I have the exact same situation. I haven't had one yet but I'm just letting it ago and wait for my body to decide. It's annoying at times I know.
     
  3. I'll never be the same

    I'll never be the same Fapstronaut

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    Neither did I, but it's because of faping...
     
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  4. I'll never be the same

    I'll never be the same Fapstronaut

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    It's really annoying ! For example today I thought I would have a spontaneous ejaculation at work !
     
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  5. I hear mixed opinions in here when it comes to wet dreams. Some people are hoping to have one, while others are quite annoyed with them. Personally, I'd like to know what they're like.
     
  6. I'll never be the same

    I'll never be the same Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I'd like to have them, cause it's a natural process... we'll see, hope it will come soon !
     
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  7. Runner Bean

    Runner Bean Fapstronaut

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    I think you gotta just wait it out, it's different for everyone. If you're really up for having one though you should check out lucid dreaming- a dream in which the dreamer is aware that they are dreaming and they can control the dream and what actions they take in it. It's a fairly easy skill to learn if you create some pretty simple daily habits. Check it out here:
    http://www.world-of-lucid-dreaming.com/
     
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  8. SorryWontSayIt

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    I actually had one already after the first week, that helped me some. Two weeks later, I had a very "wet dream", but I still did not ejaculate, which was extremly anyoing that day. All I did was think of that dream, which was making everything a lot more difficult to me.

    Edit: I know you have to ejaculate to have a wet dream - but it felt like it was one. After I woke up I had to check if I had ejaculated - that was what I ment to say! :)
     
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  9. Actually, I'm a pro at lucid dreaming. I'm pretty sure I could get myself there pretty easily using that method, but I'd rather have it happen in my sleep.
     
  10. BullseyeChris

    BullseyeChris Fapstronaut

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    How was it a "wet dream" if you didn't ejaculate? Lots of pre-cum? Ha. A sexual dream isn't a wet dream unless there is a physical release. That's why it's wet, haha.
     
  11. Hmm. It seems you had a very "dry dream"! :rolleyes:
     
  12. BullseyeChris

    BullseyeChris Fapstronaut

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    How long until you get one depends on your body and age and all of that. Even when I was a teen, I had to abstain for over a month (which was VERY rare) to get one. Other guys get one after a week. 20 days is getting into a good range, but I've had to wait 45 days before, once I was in my 20s. But hopefully you won't have to, bro! I've never had a true spontaneous ejac before. Would be cool to experience, but only if I was alone at home ha, definitely not while at work!
    Signs I've experienced before getting a WD include getting a couple "dry dreams" (meaning sexual-ish ones but no ejac), and even some semen leakage when using the bathroom, particularly after doing #2 (tmi, sorry, ha). But I rarely get sexually-themed dreams so if I get a couple I know I am getting close. I haven't had a WD in years though, bec of too much MB. :( For me, they have always been a positive thing. They feel great, I don't feel a sense of guilt afterwards, and I just feel studly afterwards. They are a celebration of fighting the fap!! Many guys who continue to abstain say that they start to get them more frequently over time, others don't. It's all a bit of a mystery, haha. Let us know when you do get one! Keep holding out for it!!
     
  13. Flyhigh

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    Wet dreams are awesome I used to have lots during my teenage years and once I went 42 days nofap I had 7.
     
  14. newLife.

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    All my life, I think I never Ever had Wet Dream
     
  15. Gotham Outlaw

    Gotham Outlaw Fapstronaut

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    I could probably count the number of wet dreams I've had in one hand. 2 of them were during my reboot. Everyone gets them at different times, but it's just a sign that things are getting back to normal.
     
  16. EddyFriend

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    Nobody should complain about what they cant influence. It happens and when it happens its goood
     
  17. Clean Plate

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    Usually when your sac has too much semen held up in them. Ive had 3 in my current streak. Actually sctratch that I dont truely know, maybe im right, lol!
     
  18. SorryWontSayIt

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    I know you have to ejaculate to have a wet dream - but it felt like it was one. After I woke up I had to check if I had ejaculated - that was what I ment to say!
    hehe, so yeah - it was actually a dry dream, that felt wet hehe. :)
     
  19. Yeah, just made me giggle! :D
     

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