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Rejected for Prom

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by pranav02, Oct 29, 2017.

  1. pranav02

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    I know I'm sposed to stay strong after this but I keep getting random flashes of the incident. The girl I asked out, I don't really like her that way and I wanted to ask her if we wanted to go as friends but I ended up messing up 'the asking out bit' and it was a straight no and she's like I'm not going to prom. I, although feel like I've failed and I didn't put in as much effort as I should've being the self-conscious person that I am. Any advices or help to get me through this?
     
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  2. Cafax Xafac

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    learn some venusian arts. I get laid alot.
     
  3. pranav02

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    Mate Mate Mate
     
  4. Why do you care if you only see her as a friend anyway?
     
  5. pranav02

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    Like I said, it makes me self-conscious that I am not good enough and stuff. I. feel like I won't have a chance with other girls. Prolly a faux-feeling but it still hurts a bit. Plus, it MAY be awkward since she's in my class and I'll be seeing her everyday
     
  6. HacKadi

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    Read No More Mr. Nice Guy! It will blow your mind.
     
  7. Watchtower

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    Maybe she just wasn't interested in going to prom at all, with anyone. At least you had enough courage to ask her and at least she didn't turn you down just to go with someone else.
     
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  8. pranav02

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    I still feel bad y'know? I sorta expected a reward for 90 days but can't get everything y'know. She said she ain't coming for prom at all but still..
     
  9. Watchtower

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    Yeah, I get it. It's okay to feel bad about it. Hopefully an even better reward comes. And now you can ask a different girl if you want!
     
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  10. Wait a minute. She said she isn't going to prom. She didn't say she didn't want to go with you.

    Maybe she really isn't going, or she's busy or something. Don't think of it as something that happened to you.
     
  11. pranav02

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    It went like "NO, I'm sorry! Plus, I'm not even coming for prom this year anyway"
     
  12. ohhhhhhhkay. You got rejected.

    Do you live in India?
     
  13. pranav02

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    Am Indian but live in UAE
     
  14. Ohh, I'm an Indian living in India. Prom system doesn't really exist here lol
     
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  15. Watchtower

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    I was initially confused about having prom this time of year. Makes sense since you guys live a world away. Here the high schoolers have prom towards the end of the school year. April or May.

    I'm an old man though. Lol
     
  16. pranav02

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    Ours is too sort of but we have exams and other tight schedules. Our school ends by March-April so yeah, Prom'd be in December.
     
  17. You have to just move past it. Shit happens but take it as a learning experience you didn't really like that broad in that way anyway. The great gucci mane once said, "Girls are like buses: miss one next 15 one comin"
     
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