Giving this a try

Welcome brother.

Porn/masturbation is certainly a taboo and embarrassing but I've told many people in the last month and as bad as my situation is, they've all been supportive. If sharing your problems here is helping, then start a journal and pour your heart out!

Many problems we experience are reversible, try to put the past behind you and put your energy into recovery.

I look forward to reading how you will tackle this addiction, the support and advice here is second to none.

 

Hello and welcome to NoFap!

I'm really sorry about your current situation right now. Let me know if I can help.

 

Oh, crap. Does that sound like me, or what? I have a lot of alone time to fill, my wife is aware of my problem (my first time was five years ago; I'm not exactly a record-breaking success around here), and I came this time because of the hurt I caused my wife, and because PMO made me break the promise I made to my wife, to be (in the words of the old Quaker wedding ceremony) unto her a loving and faithful husband. I lied to myself that it wasn't infidelity becasue it wasn't with a real person. But it has all of the hallmarks and effects of infidelity, doesn't it?

I had to make a lot of changes. It's only a little time, and the trust is not back by any means, but there are little signs that things are a bit better with my wife. I can't guarantee that for you... but I can guarantee this: if you go back to PMO, things WILL get worse.

Check in again soon. Get some info. Think about what changes you can make in your life.

 

Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

It will take time but you can get through this.

The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?

 

Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips which may help you along your journey.