How to deal with her behaviour?

I'm telling you, from MANY MANY MANY experiences, of myself and others, that this:

is the key to not getting what you want.

And in some cases, even watching how other guys gets ahead in the race (with her, yeah.)

You can be a close friend, obviously, if you want. But not deciding what you want and being firm about it will take you nowhere if you want to be with her.

And this:

Is the biggest BS. So much BS that gets me enraged even though I don't know her

Why? Because if you get into an intimate relationship is precisely to mutually improve both of your lives. I mean WTF.

This I'm telling you, you'll eventually realize, sooner or later.

Decide what you want and be firm. That does not imply being rude or bad or stupid with her.

Just: "hey, this is what I want. If you don't want the same, then I'm not interested in waiting, byebye". Obviously not that exact sentence, but that's the idea you have to get across in a relaxed but firm way.

 

I know how it feelts men actually i fallt until 11 days by myself trying to succed im taking it good because i learn that happines doesnt becames about what other people make you feel, an example if she is nice physical and emocional you feelt in love but you dont know her at all, so you dont have to give all for her, i have bloqued her she was the kind of girl i like, she was playing with me so i fail in my 11 day because i think if i dont have her i will not be a men or happy, i feel bad, so i suscribe definitely to noFap and that is my story hope it help you.

 

If you get in relationship or you suppose to think on that and it doesnt happens the most probably is that you will fail because you think that if you be with her or you touch or intimidate you will progrese on this course of nofap but men thats is the problem, happines is on you i fail from 11 days to 0 in less than a second for that kind of thinkings. My english is not well at all im not from usa jaja

 

BS is bullshit. A lie or something utterly false or wrong. I'm not a native speaker either, maybe they can give be more precise

I didn't mean to be harsh. I'm just trying to get my point across in a passionate way, because I've experienced it myself, and I've also seen COUNTLESS cases of this, and I hate when guys still not take it seriously enough (not saying you have to be "serious" ).
I also agree that you can choose not to be decisive about your relationships (and life in general), but that's usually only when you have experienced and transcended being intentional about what you want and what you do not want. With that understanding, then you can play it however you want in different moments.
But most guys just let an indecisive girl to make a decision for them, and that seldom works out. In this case, even more seldom because being confident and having clear values and principles is attractive, and not being like that is unattractive.

Don't hesitate to ask if you need to

Wish you the best.