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Girls spontaneously sending semi-nude, nude pics, photos of private parts etc

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Son of Midgaard, Jan 3, 2018.

  1. Son of Midgaard

    Son of Midgaard Fapstronaut

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    Sometimes girls out of the blue send me these things just debating how our bodies look like. I suppose this is not a good idea: recently about two days ago I surprisingly got explicit pics of a girl out of nowhere and immediately erased both of them.

    I suppose never asking about any kinds of pictures at all nd holding back being overly curios is the best way of ensuring you keep your fap going continously. And stating clearly upon receving something of this nature it is unwanted and that we should focus on other aspects of the relationships or contact.

    How have you all dealt with it?
     
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  2. Rambler86

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    I know what you mean, it’s happened to meet me and really triggers me. Had to block the contacts doing it. I managed not to act out, then day 4 boom!! I relapsed. I’m starting again now so I’m on day two
     
  3. noonoon

    noonoon Fapstronaut

    Wow! Is this a thing now
    ? What kind of girl just sends nude pics of themselves?
     
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  4. Rambler86

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    Well i know her but still, just out the blue! Not even my girlfriend!
     
  5. Son of Midgaard

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    I think only way is never talking about anything sexual ever. The longer ypu write with someone the more they trust you and if they have any erotic content of themselves the risk increases they send it. So many guys just wanna see girls private parts and that is it, maybe that has smt to do with it, just give them what them wan't then vanish for good.

    just keep away from the subject if a girl asks just say we can talk face to face or at worst over the phone never through texted messages.
     
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  6. Omnitron310

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    Wow, wish I had that problem :p Then again, maybe I don't, since as you say it could be majorly triggering.

    I guess the way to solve it depends on how well you know the person. If you know them well and trust them enough to talk about it, you could explain what you are doing and politely ask them to refrain from sending you anything during your nofap period (making it clear of course that there's nothing wrong with them; it's a personal choice for you).

    If it's just an acquaintance, you could block them, but that might come off as rude and you might miss actual important messages. Better to probably just delete the photos without paying them any close attention.
     
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  7. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    I know guys send dick pics... And those are usually random... But I have never heard of this.
    Is this a thing now?
     
  8. Lol! Now that's something you don't hear everyday!
     
  9. Just

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    << Never sent a dic pick. Never received a random nude from anyone other than my wife.. I guess it depends on the relationship. If you are uncomfortable, speak up. If you are not comfortable and worried about a negative reaction, you can always block senders. Good luck with this one, hope it works out for you.
     
  10. I had a coworker send these kind of pics to me out of nowhere. I didn't even know she liked me and couldn't even tell from our conversations at work that she liked me. Just one day on facebook messenger she contacted me and then BAM pic dump. She was like the female version of Anthony Weiner, minus the weiner and Anthony part. I politely told her I wasn't interested, but that we could be friends. She ended the conversation telling me if I ever wanted to fuck then I knew where I could find her.

    I was kind of shocked.
     
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  11. Now that escalated quickly!
     
  12. Just

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    So glad I made it past mid-century without having this sort of grooming.
     
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  13. A slut o_O
     
  14. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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    Dude seriously?! How the hell am I missing out if this is really a thing?! You surely jest.
     
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  15. I love nude pics, but no girl has ever sent me random nudes. Thankfully, no guys have either.
     
  16. phwrancesco

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    give me their numbers bro :)
     
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  17. Ub3rT1m3

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    Well you have to admire her confidence at least.

    I have received a few photos in the past but the thing about girls is they seem to have this knack for taking really good pics, perfect lighting, angles etc. (probably airbrushed too). So I never put much stock in pictures anymore because they are so far altered from their original state that I might aswell be looking at CGI.

    Basically, just porn all over again isn't it.
     
  18. Ub3rT1m3

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    Check your PM ;)
     
  19. Peace Seeker

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    It happened when I was about 17-18 years old. A girl whom I didn't know that well (almost a stranger) had sent me a nude pic to seduce me when I tried to reject her smoothly. She was cute; I felt urges and wished to keep it. But luckily my mom taught me that women in general are cunning and up to no good. She said: "Once they steal your time and resources they will leave when you're broke. So try to stabilize your livelihood first." I had accepted that I didn't know the world that well, and hence blindly followed whatever my mom said. And because of that I felt salty in my stomach, and luckily deleted it right then. Now I feel glad about those moments when I regretted deleting that pic. Although I am not conservative anymore, but during that moment conservative family background saved my ass. Now I know that she wanted to chill in clubs doing alcohol and dj by marrying guys who work hard to earn livelihood.
     
  20. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

    I heard that's how kids flirt these days... :D
     

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