Ending a friendship with a girl who likes me

There’s no polite way of telling someone you are not interested in them. Just be honest with her. It’ll save you and her a lot of drama and time.

 

Just put yourself in here shoes and make your decision based off that I think you can't go wrong with that. It sucks being let down but that's all a matter of perception and time heals all wounds. However, it would be a lot worst to sugar coat the situation and to hold her hear and feelings hostage. It's funny I recently got a call from this girl in college who was really interested.But most of the time I was a dick about it,and we fooled around once.After that it got a little weird we stayed friends, but deep down I thought I could mess around with her anytime I wasn't getting from girls I was actually really interested. Idk why she called me I barely hear from
her and we live an hour away from each other. It was interesting because she was with her friend that also hooked up with.She was at the bar with her and they called me to see if I was in the area. But long story short I tried to reconnect with her and texted her on Monday and said how was the rest of your night and we should meet up but never responded back lol Idk if this is off topic but let this person go and give her the respect of being honest with her. Some things in life aren't meant to be and tell her that she will get over you and find someone that will reciprocate the same interest.

 

Well there is no easy way but you have to be honest with her about it, so what if feelings get hurt it happens I know of plently of women who were not shy about telling me over the years they didn't like me it happens, women are not as thin skinned as you think tell her its not working out and you have moved on

 

Whatever you do, do not ghost her! I’ve done this before in the past and I’ve had it done to me.. that’s prolly the worst thing you could do to someone

 

Just be honest. Explain what you explained here. That you don't want to lead her on because you don't see a future with her romantically or friendly, and therefor you want to end it.

 

I think you should keep her as a friend and said to her that nothing more will happen but don't put her out of your life cause you never know what can happen maybe one day when you will be in a big trouble she will be here to help you and help you recovery from you problems. Everybody that's not against us is with us never forget that bud

 

You fear the unknown just like the most of us but you all that matters is here and now and what steps you can take now to rectify it. Also hurting her is out of your control that's her job to pick herself up and keep on going.This is a harsh truth Ive learned is that no one is gonna love you more than you love yourself so do yourself a favor and just let her know how you feel. Also keeping hear around as an option is a lost cause imo it's kind of like an ego boost thing I can have her whenever I want which is manipulation and it seems like you don't want to do that

 

She will hurt a lot from this but she will hurt more if it drags on. Rip the band aid off! You got this bruh

 

absolutely. i think that women are in many ways actually more thick skinned than men. there was a study recently that it takes a man longer to get over his ex and move on after a break up while alot of girls are already in the market after a couple of months.

 

hey man ! dont want to be harsh on you, but isnt it a bit selfish to have her as your fallback when you already know that you are not attracted to her.
i guess the counter argument here could be that women do this kind of thing to guys all the time. they keep on leading a man just so they have a fallback.
but that does not make this practice ethical.
i dont think you should keep her hanging.
just make up your mind and then end it with her.

 

I agree dont ghost. That is bad for her and you psychologically. Tell the truth as much as you have to. You may not even have to end the friendship if you make it clear you think the relationship side of things has run its course. That you appreciate the time you spent together and shes great but not great for you. that you cannot really control your emotions and you dont want to hurt her. Be honest as much as u can without hurting her.

Thats all.