A Progressive Challenge-A different kind of challenge- all levels

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by DerNeuMann, Nov 13, 2017.

  1. TanglePie

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    23/34 and these urges have been crazy strong today. Powerful dreams and being discharged from hospital I blame. But hid the phone and watched some comedy. Guess laughter has got me through these 4 hrs. Another round of ammo for me too use
     
  2. Inspire360

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    Lol im gonna join. 90 days ehh? Well ok. let the countdown begin!
     
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  3. stephanD

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    The words "figured out I had problem" make me smile, thats what we all have done, are doing and why we are here. There is a relief that comes from gaining a bit of clarity about what is wrong.
     
  4. stephanD

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    Glad you're starting again. Why don't you tell us a bit more about why you are doing nofap, and what triggers have been a problem for you in the past. Everybody is here to help everyone else :)
     
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  5. Thanks Stephan! Yea it was crazy how it all clicked for me. I'm glad I didn't quite have to hit rock bottom to get that clarity. Looking back at it and the science of this addiction. It may have been responsible for a lot of pitfalls in my life.

    Day 6 of 7 or 6 of 30
     
  6. Of course. I am doing it because it takes a lot of time, it drains my energy, it makes me do things I wouldn't normally want to do. What triggers me is mostly fantasies from porn videos I have watched and when I get such a fantasy on my mind it is hard to get it away. This addiction have made me miss out on so many things. And thanks for asking, it helped a lot :)
     
  7. Pranav1486

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    7days no_pmo challenge accepted.

    I just relapsed after 7days , but confident I can do it again. This time I will go progressive challenge after 7days, 14days, 30days, 60days and 90 is the goal :) I hope, I will celebrate 4th july with true freedom from pmo :)

    0/7 no-pmo
     
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  8. Pranav1486

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    Hi Gaurav.kumar it is depends, as you are going for no_PMO hardcore, orgasm counts as relapse :)

    you can choose no_PM, softmode then O is okay in sex. good luck
     
  9. Gripseeker

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    15 days, check.
    Trying to fall asleep yesterday, I got a couple of tempting visual thoughts.
    I immediately became super alert, with my conscious self noticing and categorizing them as something expected to arrive and pass by if no response given.
    They went away, came back again, tested me a little bit longer and then finally went away for the rest of the night.

    Now I want to add a couple of more days.
     
  10. Didn't make it through today. Blaaaahhhh :mad:.....!
    Back to day 0.
    New challenge: Get through the rest of y-day (couple hours) and the whole of tommorow.
     
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  11. stephanD

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    @bookblooming I think you've got the right idea. I am a massive fan of super short goals, especially to start with. If I've relapsed and am then aiming for 90 my brain-on-porn says well you might indulge a few times now before you start again proper, *DO NOT LISTEN TO THAT FALSE REASONING* start now, make it 24 hours and then set your next goal. Your brain-on-porn will always be looking for a way to dump you back in the hole.
     
  12. stephanD

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    Oh yeah I know that feeling. I think part of it is having an active and imaginative mind, which is a good thing that can sometime lead us to stupid places. A thought will come into my mind and then I'll think I could probably find that and the search becomes part of the game, but it leads to such an empty feeling. Do you do anything else you do that is creative or is aiming toward a positive goal? I'm enjoying meditating at the moment, playing the guitar and I try and draw a little.
     
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  13. TC10

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    Welcome. Good luck man.
    Nice. You’ve come this far, don’t give in.
    Good. 1 day at a time.
     
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  14. basitjee

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    I have achieved my challenge. It was 90 days.
     
  15. basitjee

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    Give me new Challenge. I am hungry for a challenge
     
  16. basitjee

    basitjee Fapstronaut

    Guys I am on Day 101. Any body who wants to give me new challenge
     
  17. basitjee

    basitjee Fapstronaut

    Give me new challenge please.
     
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  18. basitjee

    basitjee Fapstronaut

    Challenge Challenge Challenge Challenge Challenge Challenge Challenge Challenge Challenge Challenge
    I need Challenge
     
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