So you think that cam girl really loves you?

You think the chat room is a warm and happy place. Your favorite host greets you so sweetly, remembers your favorite song, gives you her email address and sends detailed information about herself and shares intimate moments. She calls you her friend and hints that someday you can meet her, maybe, possibly, sort of...You begin to schedule your time just to see her show, you spend more than you should just to be one of the "regulars" and get her special attention, you find yourself checking your email multiple times a day, you immerse yourself in emails to her declaring your love, and you have a secret credit card to hide your activity.

Get out now. You are no match for these temptresses. They have you by the short hairs and know things about what turns you on better than you. They are masters of seduction and have one common goal: drain your credit card. You think she really likes you and wants to be your friend? Do yourself a favor and do a search on the web for some of these phrases and see just what you really mean to them:
webcam payday
make money as a cam girl
webcam master plan

See what you really are to them, find yourself in the examples they use to discuss how to keep you on the hook, and then have a good cry and get the hell out. Now.

 

I have bad news for you. While that may be true for the foreign girls working in studios, the best ones working as independents make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year doing this. They work hard, very hard, but their ethics leave a lot to be desired as they prey on your base emotions and lie about how special you are to them. Search the terms i posted and see just what they really think about you; see how they classify and talk about you.

 

Me too. I quit just a few days ago. Feeling better already. Lot of anger left over, but ultimately, all my fault. Time to move forward. Good luck to you.

 

My target here is more married men and those caught up in it and finding it hard to get out of a "relationship" and stop spending money they do not have. Try searching webcampayday. It is legal and consensual and not everyone is as vulnerable to this as others and not all chat hosts are this mercenary. Some actually are nice and just like to be exhibitionists. But some are hardcore with absolutely no regard for emotion or vulnerabilities. They are methodical and deliberate in their assessment and treatment of men they think will help finance their lifestyle and pretend to like them and hook them with flattery and promises. There is no downside for the chat host, other than having to deal with guys' sexual imaginations and requests. They hold all the cards and can walk out when they wish. There is no "lemon law" for chat promises and no laws against flirting and showing skin for a response. But NoFap is for people in trouble with their emotions and trying to recover from addictive behavior and if this helps some of them realize the money they throw at these women will not result in a date or sex or a real "friend" or if it helps someone stop spending their family's money to please a chat host or if it helps them see the light and stop a destructive fantasy and stop ruining a relationship with a girlfriend or wife I will be happy. I want to simply open up the eyes of people having similar experiences and help them get over the fantasy and move onward and end the secrecy and hurt it can cause relationships.

 

Wave, you and I are the reason for this post. You are right; some cam girls have little choice. But you and I am many others walked willingly into the room of a pro, not a poor, scared girl giving most of her money to a "studio" as they do in Romania and other spots. We were welcomed as friends and it was very sweet and innocent. Until we spent our first 500 tokens. And then they put their plan into motion, the marketing to make us want to spend more, the come-on to be a "regular" and try to keep up with the high spenders, the inexpensive fan club giving us colored chat names and special privileges. But the worst of it was the deception, the false sense of being "special" to them and the trading of emails and promises and intimate details of their lives. I fell for that hard, thinking somehow that i was special and important to her and I went all out and spent a lot of money. But worse than the money was the emotional investment. I was totally hooked. I know, my fault, my weakness, my pathetic thoughts of somehow meeting her and...what? Becoming a part of her life? A lover? A boyfriend? What would she want with a guy who visits her room and watches her masturbate on cam? So when i read some of the lines in the manual, about how she would entice and retain guys just like me as an income stream and "milk" my credit card, about how she would use psychology to keep guys like me interested by giving me "private" access to her emails and give me special attention so she could suck thousands of dollars out of them, it f__ked me up bad. See, I wasn't there to watch her finger herself, I really thought i was in love with someone real. The thing that finally forced me to take a hard look and see reality was when, after hinting we could meet, i backed out and told her i was a married man and I had changed my mind. She emailed back that, well, maybe it COULD happen. She was encouraging me to be a bastard and fuck up my marriage. She was in total mercenary mode by then and i knew i had to get out and get help. But yeah, i still think about her. I am a sap, but i will not go back. You and I and all the others need to find a hobby. Mine right now is writing here about this stuff, but i already have made changes and i exercise a lot more, play a lot of classical music and try to move forward. Good luck to you. Use your anger to dive into something.