Most of people on this forum is pathetic and isn't even really trying to quit Porn and Masturbation

I hate it, but i can't do anything about it since i still doing that...

 

True! XD

 

Haha your post made me laugh but still im totally convinced: no lust oriented/obsessed mind, no pmo, no wasting semen all the time,,,, is benificial for mind, body & spirit .

 

But the supportive nature of these forums is important too.

 

My personal favorites are: “A question for the women...”

Followed up a life story, ending with “please help me”

The women here cant help you bro. Get yourself put back together.

 

Awesome streak man!

 

Sometimes the threads can be a bit silly but it's important to remember that everyone is different and at different stages on this. Also, it should be said there is no one size fits all. As @i_wanna_get_better1 points out in his brilliant post in this thread there are 3 different camps of PMOA's. The trouble is when people insist that there's is the only camp and insists everyone should do what they do.

It should also be said that the idea that NoFap gives superpower is a bit silly, and some people take it to extreme lengths.
I think it's better to wait sometime until you give a success story. Personally, I'm going to wait until I make it to 5 years until I give success because giving one before that is a bit premature imo.

 

Sounds a little judgmental

 

I wouldn't be so judgmental. As someone who has been hooked up to it for 17 years, I have no right to. Addict has to hit rock bottom, before he is truly willing to change. People don't like changes, even if we say we do. Going outside your comfort zone takes a lot of courage. When withdrawal symptoms hit you, especially if you've had heavy bingle compulsive addiction for decades, you must be prepared to go through hell for extended period of time, dealing with headaches, wild mood swings, major depression, social anxiety, sickness, you name it. If I'd have to start all over with hardmode, I'd be very scared right now. Every single time I made it past 90 days and relapsed next try was more difficult, current streak being the hardest, physically and especially mentally. It's not the PMO which hunts you, it's the problems you're trying to escape from with a help of PMO. Once PMO is gone, real causes of mental pain resurface and many people can't cope with that. I can't and don't blame them. They're not ready yet to stop running away, but they will be some day, hopefully before they hit rock bottom like I did, at least they're trying.

 

Epic thread, and yeah, I had similar thoughts about some posts

 

That normally happens when people are too lonely on this journey, but i agree, some people gotta shut up for a moment and fight dificulties.

 

Rightly said . I am on day 34 I am confident now but still i have strong urges .I have energy and confidence increase but no way I am superman in any way yet. I am going to gym, doing meditation, keeping control on diet, working hard. Giving my best to be the best version of myself.

 

I couldn't agree more. Also, day five and I think I'm really feeling some benefits, and the ladies are definitely noticing me more.