How should a PA behave in relation to their SO (one-liners please...)

Do unto others, as you'd have them do unto you.
It's amazing how far the stuff you learned in kindergarten and/or Sunday school can go in a relationship. Too frequently, it's not.

 

The maximum possible behavior expected by SO and agreed between the both

 

I don't know a generalized answer. This is something each PA could get from their SO...

 

The more you fear something the more likely you will make that fear come true.

 

Ask your self..... is it worth it....


( This applies to both wanting to use and the effort to abstain and change)

Is it worth it !!!!

 

Don't change for your partner or you will never succeed. Change for yourself.