50 Shades Freed

Holy shit. Seriously holy shit. What the fuck did I just watch. First movie in 2018 I seriously regret watching. Every minute of it! Excuse me ladies and gentlemen, I need to go puke now.

 

I wasnt really expecting much. I watched the first movie, not the best but decent one time watch. Then the second, crap but still okay to relax and the third one oh god, I didnt relax at all, face-palming most of the time. I have never seen a movie without a plot until today. 100 minutes. Plus all actions of all characters were totally illogical.

How they can even film something like that with budget 55 million? And what is even worse such crap already made $368 million worldwide, and is the 5th highest-grossing film of year 2018. What fucked-up world am I living in when such shit offering nothing is so successful?

 

You got a point there but I was not talking about that, that was clear from the first movie.

What I didnt like in the 3rd movie was that the main male actor who was supposed to be the richest, the most handsome and the most confident man on earth actually acted sometimes more needy and insecure as total virgin who somehow luckily mange to have a date with his dream crush. Totally illogical, unauthentic and unrealistic.

And IMHO the movie is actually much worse for young teenage girls than for men since it totally brainwash young girls naive brain showing them all they dreamed from childhood about prince charming can happen (the 3rd movie started with wedding in slow motion lol), that a man with many options will suddenly only see her, only her and nobody else, without needing to do anything from her side, just the way she is, she can have unreasonable conditions, stupid actions but he still will be returning to her, like total needy virgin, ignoring all other imho far far better options. This is very damaging since it is not how it works in the real world...

 

haha, you are a real joker!
Definitely no, my only role model is me from the future.

 

You hit the nail. Happy for you to be able to realize that and find out what is actually good for you.

 

If somebody is controlling and jealous he is far far from a man who has shit together. I was annoyed (not upset) about inauthenticity of portrayed character. I dont care if somebody is asshole or nice guy but the personality performance has to be consistent and authentic. If somebody is playing super confidence and then do some super needy things then potraying super confidence again, showing needy behavior again - it doesnt match. He didnt change in the movie, he was doing both some super confident actions and some super needy actions at the same time what is totally inconsistent, inauthentic behavior showing like if all his confidence was just faked and not grounded internally. That was totally unrealistic and wouldnt never happened in normal world when somebody is labeled "the most eligible bachelor on planet Earth".

If you thought that I considered having lot of money, being always controlling and dominating to be a proper man then you thought wrong. You dont need money at all actually, all you need is to have your shit together; be grounded in your own internal values, not external approval; be responsible for your own life, own actions and happiness; know your own worth, know what you want and just go for it. That's all.