Hello I need advice

Having hand job/bj before marriage will not help at all, in fact it will burden both of you. Show your courage as a man by denying that for now. It will make things much better during marriage.

 

It's not porn but actual sex, so I don't think there might be a problem there - plus, there's a third way that's not her vagina or her mouth :v lol

 

Hey buddy, I am very glad that you reached your first 30 days. Nice job, is a really tough one!
For me, I am trying to do monk mode which is no PMO or even sex. After trying it for several times, I saw that having sex would trigger a stronger and continuous urge to watch porn. It is more like you ignite your engine and it has to run some miles. Therefore, just beware of it. Handjob or bj or even the back door doesn't matter.
But do spend some time to think whether that is what you want! If so, go for it!

 

No, it is not. In my opinion you don't have to reset your streak because it is a healthy and normal sexual situation between you and your girlfriend. You should enjoy this.

 

My dear brother... once u start doing other stuff besides sex, u will ultimately reach to sex. When she will start enjoying it and u too will, obviously she will go a step further, or u might persuade her for that, and she might not be able to say no to u.
And if someday u people broke up.. u will obviously need to do something for that pleasure. So u will again start with porn and masturbatiion.so my suggestion is either completely abstain urself from that girl, or wait till marriage before doing anything

 

I completely agree with the friend above, bar the part about leaving her. There are numerous ways to show love without hand jobs and bjs - those two should actually be considered masturbation, based on how they're done. And you'll feel masturbated afterwards.