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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Deleted Account, Jun 20, 2018.

  1. Hello everyone, i was thinking about something, i'm on day 9 with no PMO but i have a violent and recurrent thoughts about a girl that i can "pottencially" have sex with her.
    So :
    - Am I allowed to think about this girl ?
    - I talk a little bit to her but can I ask her to "watch"* a movie together?

    Thanks.

    *I mean to watch Netflix and slowly going to screw together.
     
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  2. Hetr

    Hetr Fapstronaut

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    Being aware of your motives is probably a good idea. That's what I currently ask myself as I consider sleeping with a girl too.
    About your questions. You're allowed to think about whatever you want, it's your challenge. But you got to know that some thoughts can lead to some urges. Likewise, having sex with someone can lead to experimenting the chaser effect. It's a matter of how strong and ready you feel about dating someone too.
     
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  3. Many thanks ! But having sex (with a girl) restart the nofap counter?
     
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  4. It depends on your reason to start a counter was it set up for mo or pmo if your having sex with a normal girl and not pmo or mo I don't see the need to reset
     
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  5. Thanks !
     
  6. primaljade

    primaljade Fapstronaut

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    Umm, does she know this? You must negotiate these sorts of things *before* starting a legal BDSM relationship.
     
  7. Haha ! lmao, i'm not in a relationship and BDSM too.
    And to update this thread, theses thoughts are gone.
     
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