nofap is the result of confidence and different mindset

Dear forum,

I think a lot of you guys are doing nofap with the motivation to get more girls and becoming more confidence however I think you people need to realize that you are thinking the wrong way its not because you don’t masturbate that you get more confidence no having more confidence results in you less masturbating. Nofap is the result of having a different mindset.

When you are depressed or having low confidence you want attention and that’s why you are masturbating to porn because you think you will not be able to find love or sex.

You are masturbating because you are putting woman on a pedestal. They have amazing ass, boobs oh my god I want to have her. While if you have a different mindset and care less about her looks and have a attitude “ she needs to prove herself” lets see if she is worth it.. Then you will not masturbate to porn because would you masturbate to something you don’t find important.

When you have more self respect and confidence and see woman as they truly are just humans just like(men) and they need to prove themselves and see if they are worth you’re time you will also look different at naked woman you will see it as something normal not “amazing “.


Thinx about it if you make woman less important how hard is it to not masturbate to their pictures? Not that hard at all because they are just woman.

Want to succeed on nofap? Change you're mindset. Push her from the pedestale

 

Yesterday i saw a movie called

There where lots of nudity in it but i noticed i didn't care at all it was dude it are just woman who cares .. And i didn't have a urge to masturbate. i did was aroused but i didn't get this massive urge to cum.

 

Bump people need to read this !!!

 

Porn users put hot woman(porn stars) on a pedestale because they masturbate to it while you should not give a woman this attention before you get to know her.

You see a hot woman and thinx i want to cum and you start to get anxiety and stress. While you don't even know her don't put her on a pedestale.

Don't put hot woman on a pedestale and masturbate to them. If you change that mindset making woman less important you will not masturbate to them.

 

I am just saying if you have confidence , and are happy and need less attention from a girl its easier to not masturbate because you don't need it thats my point.

I am not saying give woman no atention i am saying you shouldn't thinx a woman is the one just by seeing her one time give it time...

And i don't have anxiety when i approuch woman because i thinx its not a big deal i only thinx its a big deal when i get to know her..

Its just my experience if i got more confidence i masturbate less to porn. or even not.

 

Woman is like a present with a package.. it can either have a nice present inside or not..

don't give her to much value just because of her body (package) get to know her

 

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I am not a mgtow definitely not. I've had girfriends, and dates.

With the sentence "need to prove herself" i mean that a lot of guys only look at the woman looks and immediately thinx she is the one way to fast..Maybe you don't have a connection , maybe she is a bitch towards you and don't give you respect. Thats what i mean prove herself you have to look if you 2 are compatible.

Same goes for woman they shouldn't fall immediately for a man first look if its the right person.