Women tempting intentionally

Sarah. I agree to what you or others say from the point of view of now. I see a development and where I think it will lead to.
That’s what I am referring to. They are not fantasy but based on what I experienced.
There is always development in the world and there is always a better outcome tomorrow than it is now. In my mind there is no good olden days. The best days are now better than at any time. And the even much better days lie in the future as what we go through now -of which one is the huge and massive porn thing- will lead to something really great in the future.
For example in history if you look at liberation of black (not even completed yet by far) or the sexual revolution (which never was one yet as we aren’t liberated in sex yet). Or women’s rights and emancipation (which isn’t completed yet) all were looked at as wrong and criticized then but have great justification value and development. What was a issue in the past to afar extend isn’t one now (whereas the examples I list need to keep developing as they aren’t finished yet).
Same with porn. I am convinced all taboo and sex in the hidden and dark just needs to get out of there. Not dark and hidden anymore. But natural. People have desiree urges and they express in many ways. Any of these ways were taboo. Gay lesbian was taboo. Oral sex illegal Bdsm perverted (one can think as one wants) but why 50 shades such popular. Especially also women? Why? Because it describes hidden desires and wishes that are very strong.
Keep such force hidden is the cause of atomic explosions. These we are now undoing. That’s what I am convinced.

 

You are spending a lot of time on this. I agree

 

Do you have such strong opinions only for such girls or are you in general strong with opinions and judgements on others? If not in general also to other subjects than why to this?

 

No moon shot. It’s not porn that’s the problem. It’s your mind. And the faster you realize it’s no one else but you who brought you into trouble the better as you start attacking the true cause of the problem.

 

I don’t think evolution is to blame. Yes boobs or a hot ways are attractive and I believe they are intended to be. How to reply and relate is up to you. Cheap? Uncontrolled? Disrespectful? Abusive? Assultimg? All these stem out of the way you use your mind and how you are. That has nothing to do with evolution. You came into this problem because you adjusted wrong to evolution. I am not judging. I myself got caught and lost in it. But I think it’s important to see where the problem lies and attacking that

 

Ok fair enough. I don’t see naked people going outside. I guess you mean some dresses are like being naked.
I agree could be strong trigger (not in all cases at all). For me personal I would take it as a challenge as I like what I discovered. If I am triggered by whatever, Her boobs of her ass her Dre’s and it has an effect on me. I allow this effect and something in me changed. By allowing this effect already one cramp which is fighting what I see and avoiding the trigger which is nothing but stress and creating blockages and confusion is not there anymore. This freedom I gained I use for focusing on how to dealing with the situation. If she provokes me directly intentionally in a way I don’t like I might confront or turn away. If she behaves ok I can even interact and the effect might stay or go down often and there is no problem. It requires alert. A state I like. It reminds me on having worked selling ice when I was a student. These were nude people and just seeing this like this did not trigger nothing as it in essence is natural. What mainly triggers is in the mind. The forbidden the judgement ect and not having permission or giving permission to oneself or through society or opinions of others or any other of these in my eyes wrong ways.

 

No. I think evolution happens and mankind adjust to it with a proper conduct and attitude it develops.

 

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because I believe it’s not only about reproduction but rather something much deeper unfolding