Help! Addicted to Escorts

You have identified the problem and have started making steps to fix it. Well done.
Time to take sufficient time off masturbation, pornography, fantasies, escorts and cam girls.
It may not be easy, but you don't want the alternative.
Good luck!

 

Man I had the same problem I saw 2 escorts in a month and I felt disgusted at myself, sex was even worse than PMO. What I did to stop is to think in the worst case scenario possible if I go to see one and avoid everything that can give me access to contact them... with enough practice every time I think about them I inmediately think in all kinds of STDs and the idea becomes disgusting.

 

I read somewhere that addictions often have a root cause or causes and people will often have more than one addiction. So, I suppose in time we need to get to the bottom of things, however one step at a time.
Good work on the smoking etc.

 

Hey ropapa,
I have been there too. In all, had 3 encounters with escorts over the course of a year. Not counting the many times where I was at the verge of hiring one but resisted at the last second. The 3 encounters were with 3 different women, at 3 different places, even during 3 different times of the day. But they all had one thing in common. I disliked the experience and felt utterly miserable afterwards. From the sound of it, you did too. I always try to recall that pathetic feeling any time the thought even randomly strays into my head. For me now, I'd rather die without ever having sex in my life than relive that miserable experience again. And it will always be miserable, no matter how wonderful the woman or how fanciful the setting. It will always be so because I will always, in my core, be more. More than someone with a insatiable appetite for the flesh. And my friend, I believe that you are too.

 

Well said.

 

Hope your getting away from it ManDude.

As I was one to have been there but I'm not going back. Sure I had some fun but the after thought was 100× worse and it's just not worth it. I've said b4 in here if you are fully capable of going out and meeting a woman and so forth then there isn't a reason for you to have to see an escort. If you are not handicapped or have some problem in looks or other departments you don't need it. Also from your standpoint you are addicted and further means you don't need it.
Someone who isn't addicted maybe they don't get to be with a woman or something maybe I may be wrong but that may be ok. But we can tell that you have a problem and seeing escorts is doing you no good at all.
I've had a few good times with the escort ladies. But more often not very enjoyable and many need money for drugs or for dumb shit, like living in a motel that is way over priced!
Hardly any escort i visited wanted to be intimate and carry a conversation or to get along with the, and the act of paying them can't be shaken off like it didn't happen to get to the point of sex.

Me calling them up and you could hear in their voice they only wanted to know how much you time and money and didn't sound any bit sweet or pleasant was a big turn off even if their pics were hot.

The escorts that I did like we're the ones that would talk sweet to me and were nice and cool and treated me as a person. But far a few, not worth it

 

Those are the really expensive ones who offer GFE

 

Scaring yourself is great motivation in my opinion.

 

I have, thanks for asking... it was hard at first but everything with practice becomes easier and now everytime I think about that I feel like throwing up haha.

It is man, for me it worked wonders.

 

Hire a room, then accept ten men a day coming to have sex with you. Th

Two days is great. It may take a lot longer but just believe in yourself.

 

Man that's rough but take a few moments to breathe and calm yourself dawn... maybe you do need profesional help and recognising that is a good way to heal. Keep going man, you can move on from that behavior.

 

No, you don't. You will learn from this exercise. You may do it again, but this adds to your memory. You will say 'no' soon.

 

And you are here. Well done. Don't forget the positives, friend. I don't fully believe that my addictions are important or permanent.

 

Your ancestors faced much harder challenges. It's ok. Face it, and win maybe!