Dick size

Hi guys.

I can guess that many of you were exasperated by reading this title and I am sorry but I am really concerned and really really ashamed.

I am not feelig good about my penis size AT ALL. I am only about 13/14 cm long, my dick when erect gets to my belly so almost impossible to bend it forward and it is so about 12 cm in circonference.

How shall I ever please a girl and yes I know that not only a dick can please a girl ...

 

I will admit, I'm a woman, so I dont know what it's like to worry about stuff like this. But just from a logical perspective, it seems like a waste of time to worry so much about something you can't change. This is the hand you were dealt in life, and sometimes our hands kinda suck. But all you can do is embrace it and use what you have.

And honestly, a lot of women are more pleased by other forms of sexual contact than penetration anyway.

 

13 to 14 centemeters is average. I don't get your problem. When you watch porn it distorts your expectations, thinking that the top 1% is average, and anything less is abnormal. I say work on your confidence, and get your cunnilingus game down pat and you literally have nothing to worry about.

 

Okay great thanks ^^

 

If there are testimonies please share ^^

 

You are right and I get your point but penetration is always a source of pleasure for both genders

 

That's not necessarily true. Like 90% of the time I could do without it just fine, and a lot of the time its painful or uncomfortable for me. Everybody is different.

 

Some women cannot orgasm from penitration alone. Others it is physically painful. Some can only orgasm with direct clitoral stimulation. Know your woman, do some homework, and get your cunnilingus game down.

 

I have had sex with lots of men and I can tell you that your (the OP) penis is in the average range, there are men with smaller ones. You shouldn't have a problem with pleasing women by penetration.

Stop watching porn featuring hunks. Or at least stop believing that they represent all other men. Haven't you ever had a look around in the shower room?

 

Perform cunnilingus as if your life depends on it. Perform it as if it is the greatest tasting thing on the planet. Don't stop until you please your partner. Make her pleasure a mission. Don't even penetrate her until she has had 1 or more orgasms. This is your job. This is what makes you more valuable then other men. Even if your dick game is below average, if your cunnilingus game is tip top, you are the creme de la creme.

 

We all have this notion that porn is terrible because it objectifies women, which is 100% true, but it objectifies men just as much and takes advantage of their insecurities, which is very damaging. You wouldn’t think it by watching porn but sex is about more than having a huge peepee and dominating a woman with it. Like others have said, focus on what you can change and become a better man physically and emotionally, and everything will be fine.

 

my wife told me her first boyfriend had a 30cm penis. It just hurt. He couldn't get the whole thing inside her anyway. She believes the width is more important.

As others have said, stimulating the clitoris is more likely to get a woman to orgasm than penetrative sex.

 

I kinda do most of the time.

And thanks for the compliments!

 

Wow, honestly, that was very encouraging to read !!!

I do try to workout three times a week first of all to build up muscles, I also try to succeed in nofap (in which I relapsed yesterday but started yesterday evening again), I don't smoke, I try to eat aq healthy as I can, what kind of exeecices of kegels can I do, I mean, how shall I do it ?
I guess getting your testosterone level checked needs money which I don't have but I try to shower with more or less cold water which can help bosst testosterone I guess.

I guess it is the fear of having a little one because every body talks about big dicks and mock about little dicks.

Thanks a lot for your encouraging response

 

I guess that now that I'm on my first day streak again and more determined of succeding, I would experience the same and like I said, it is about 12cm circonference so I don't know but thanks a lot for your testimony

 

Yeah well, ask a boy today if he is okay with his dick size. Today, all boy's need to have a big dick, so above 16 cm, to feel good about themselves because that is society that wants it like this. It is a horrible and stressfull topic for a guy who don't want to follow society but hears what they talk about.