My relapse story. I am too sexually attracted to new colleague.

Proper way to ask? I was thinking something along the lines of "Hey I think you're a great woman and I really like you, are you interested in having intercourse by chance"? What do you think? Basically all I am asking was how do I let her know that I want to have sex?

 

I don't know how to deal with jealousy. This ugly ginger midget lesbian colleague gives her(my desirable colleague) massages every day up to 4 times a day. She rubs her shoulders and back. Usually It happens in the break room. But I still get stuck being witness to it and it makes me feel extremely jealous and uncomfortable. Also this ginger midget always gives her long prolonged tight full hugs around her waist from the front side or back. Also because this ginger lesbian coworker is really short and this woman my desirable colleague is tall always when she is hugging her from the front she is pressing her face on her massive soft breasts and she is "accidentally"coping a feel of her butt. She is always constantly patting her lower back and touching her hair. She also always places her hand on her ass when she stands beside her also she always links arms with her and walks leaning into her. Just stuff like that. This woman my desirable co worker is always on high heels and this touchy feely ginger lesbian is always in flat shoes.Standing next to her she looks like a midget. I think this is inappropriate and unprofessional, not to mention weird. Should I say something? Or should I just accept the fact that they have a weird bond like that. Maybe I can't say anything.

 

About four months ago i made a big attempt to be friends with this woman my desirable colleague. I decided to send her a text saying: "Hey would you wanna hang, get coffee sometime? If not, no worries at all and work won't be any different" She accepted. So we've hung out together socially a fair bit over the past four months. We talk quite a lot. I've realised that we have an insurmountable personality clash. But i enjoy spending time with her. I am very attracted to her but only in a sexual way. She is like a child, needing constant approval about anything she does. There's always guys flirting or asking her for her number. When she goes out in public guys start talking to her and subtly try to ask her out. She mentions that she has a husband but some of them wont go away. She gets hit on a lot by guys, which makes women she is around jealous for some reason. She has an overwhelming amount of attention from men.

But she is sooo arrogant. She never misses a chance to point out the fact that her friend this ginger dyke colleague is much shorter than her She ALWAYS goes on about how great she is and lists all these things she loves about herself... or she "critisises" herself in an attention seeky way saying things that are CLEARLY good positive things as negative e.g. "OMG I have such big boobs! I can't believe my boobs are sooo big and I hate it big boobs are horrible" She is constantly gazing in the mirror and listing all these things she adores about her appearance. It's just so shallow and superficial! She often talks about herself.
Every conversation is about her.



She is rich. After getting to know her I just realized how lucky she is, she gets to holiday in fancy islands and other places twice a year. She goes to fancy dinners with her husband at least two to three times a week, she's literally not had to worry about anything in her own life. Me...me...me and only me...Let me tell you about me and what I did and what I want and think and feel...Listen to me...Be my audience...Don't have any wants and needs of your own...Just be here for me....Let me tell you about me exclusively and I will be your best friend....Don't ask me to take turns or have to listen to you very often....It's sure draining to be around this needy and self centered desirable woman. I want to stop this. But i just can't. She is so radiant and tall and big and soft. I am too sexually attracted to her. To be honest the reasons I'm drawn to her are her looks and her clothes. She dresses in mainly form fitting satin and silk fashionable clothing. She is always on high heels and full make up on. She is objectively very attractive, much hotter than any woman I've ever slept with.

This desirable woman my colleague always talks about the stuff that matter to her. It don't even phase her that she is having a one-sided conversation as long as i am her audience. Also she is upper middle class,stuck up snob. She is completely stuck up, spoiled and arrogant. She acts like she is better than a lot of people and it really pisses me off sometimes. She uses the term "cocktails" instead of "drinks" when we are going (usually after work) to have a drink. She also got bent out of shape when we were at Starbucks the other day and there were a few coffee grinds floating around in her coffee. I said, big deal, they will eventually sink to the bottom, but she insisted on getting a new cup of coffee poured for her. It happened again, and she said, forget it, I'll just drink water.

This desirable woman my colleague has some form of dependency complex. This ugly ginger midget lesbian colleague still gives her(my desirable colleague) massages every day . She rubs her shoulders and back. Usually It happens in the break room. But I still get stuck being witness to it and it makes me feel extremely jealous and uncomfortable.

 

My question is, what is the best thing for me to do? I'm beginning to think I'm obsessed with this woman my desirable colleague, but only in a sexual way... Which is not too healthy. My question is, what is the best thing for me to do? Because I've not made a move for so long, I feel like we're kind of friend zone now. But inside, I'm very attracted to her but only in a sexual way. And I just don't know what to do! I've started to get the feeling that it's more of a friend zone thing. I can only blame myself for moving so slow. I've been talking to a few other girls but to be honest,physically , nobody compares to this woman my desirable colleague. I want to distance myself from this woman my desirable colleague but i just can't. She is so radiant and tall and big and soft. I am sick of this. I’m confused and my mind doesn’t stop. I really worry that I’m going to lose myself completely! I don't want to waste your time but I had to get some of this out of my head. I want to do something to take my mind off her which is why I'm talking to a couple other girls and also started going to the gym.

 

I really want to fuck this woman my desirable colleague. Not in a romantic way, but in a barbaric way. Two weeks ago we were talking about blowjobs, and there was some sexual tension in the room. This ginger midget old lesbian colleague has to have her hands on my desirable colleague. It's just the obsessive touching her and rubbing her. Like she can't keep away from this woman my desirable colleague. About two months ago she started grabbing and slapping her butt and feeling up or jiggling her breasts in a joking playful way. She routinely slaps or rubs her butt. She loves to squeeze or jiggle her breasts and talk how massive, soft and squishy they are. Usually it happens on a parking lot when we are leaving work. Also this ugly ginger midget lesbian colleague gives her(my desirable colleague) massages every day up to 4 times a day. She rubs her shoulders and back. Usually It happens in the break room.

A week ago i said to this woman my desirable colleague that this ginger ugly midget dyke, who she thinks is her friend, is sexually harassing her. She just laughed and said that it isn't a big deal at all, that groping is way overblown, she feels nothing special while being groped, rubbed and touched by this ginger midget colleague , that it feels as mundane as a handshake during those times for her. She said that she is STRICTLY hetero and even the thought of eating out a vagina makes her gag. Also she said that this lesbo midget ginger groper colleague is just showing appreciation for her curves, height and clothes. She said that she admires her and that she is physically completely harmless, that she is just 53year old tiny skinny short woman (i guess she is right.This woman my desirable co worker is always on high heels and this touchy feely ginger lesbian is always in flat shoes.Standing next to her she looks like a midget.) . Also she said that this ginger dyke midget is her only true friend at work. This desirable woman my colleague has some form of dependency complex. I don't know how to deal with jealousy. Their behaviour makes me feel extremely jealous and uncomfortable. Should i just grope this woman my desirable colleague?.

So basically I hate this ginger midget dyke colleague. She is so creepy and invasive. I just cannot stand her. I swear, this ginger midget ugly dyke "best friend" is trying to turn my desirable colleague into a lesbian. That terrifies me. I know it's childish but this has come to a boiling point for me and it's vent time. I've given this woman my desirable colleague hints about getting rid of this ginger creepy midget, but I know she won't. I'm just worried about this woman my desirable colleague.

 

Exactly. This ginger midget is totally exploiting the fact that she is a lesbian, nobody wants to be accused of being homophobic, so nobody says anything. Our other colleagues are weirded out but they ignore her actions and say/do nothing as if nothing is happening. Some people just don’t like to get involved if they feel uncomfortable or not sure what is going on. Also this woman my desirable colleague is physically stronger than this ginger midget dyke groper . She is 5ft10 tall well built well endowed and curvy. This woman my desirable coworker is always on high heels and this touchy feely ginger lesbian is always in flat shoes.Standing next to her she looks like a midget. This ginger dyke colleague is ugly, creepy and masculine but she is just a 5ft3 tall, tiny, short, skinny 53year old woman. She is not tough and strong. She is not intimidating. She is physically completely harmless.

This ginger midget is extremely annoying coworker. Her predatory actions, annoyances and irritating tendencies have reached such a fever pitch that I am thinking of ways to deal with her. She thinks she has mastered her job and that is why she is intellectually bored with her work and she says this often. She repeats the same stories over a zillion times. We can all recite word-for-word her story about how her $60 microwave broke after only two years. She makes decisions without consulting, and tells everyone what to do. If I am directly asked a question she stops me and answers it for me without giving me the chance. So everyone goes to her. She is a favorite and our workplace is based on favoritism. She will never be reprimanded for her wrong doings, she usually just gets praise. This ginger midget is really bossy and usually tries to take her frustrations out on us her colleagues. .

There is no HR at work(it is a small firm) but my boss covers HR issues at work. My boss is a very successful local business woman. She has built her company from scratch. My boss is a 51 year old woman who has been divorced twice. She seems very uninterested and unimpressed with me. She basically ignores me in the office.