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Is the fapping the cause of this..?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Landser, Jan 5, 2019.

  1. Landser

    Landser Fapstronaut

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    Sup guys.. I was never lonely or sad in my life. I always had girls im decent looking and i had alot of friends. Now i'm insecure to meet someone or to go out with friends. When i get out i want to go home and fap. My friends would eventually stop inviting me anywhere. Now i fap 5 times a day and feel like crap... I had anxiety and i cant talk to a girl. I feel rejection... Im gym rat have a nice body pretty nice face but i feel rejection even from the ugliest girls.. Would 90 days reset help me?
     
  2. 90 days may not be enough, pal. Try 90 days at the very least on hard mode (no PMO), and try to quit PM as a whole for the rest of your life. I must admit I've just started so I don't know every benefit yet, but to me the latter (no PM the rest of my life) sounds so logical I'm just going to live by that. I don't have the willpower yet to give up O for months, maybe that'll come too or maybe I won't need it.
     
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  3. Landser

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    I meant would 90 days help me see any improvements. If my life gets better i will ditch it for good. I really lost my grip mentally and physically. And i cant get over loneliness...
     
  4. Only by your own experience can you find out. Sorry to be so blunt, but that's how it is. For most people, the getting started guide says it'll work, but based on severity it might take shorter or longer to see results I guess. There is no one shoe fits all for most things in this world.
     
  5. scott3085

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  6. scott3085

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    well I loked on you tube that girls can read you like a book
     
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  7. phwrancesco

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    A 90 days will definitely help you.
     
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  8. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    Yes, jacking off fucks up your dopamine levels needed for you to live life optimally. The negative physiological effects your feeling come from destroying your rewards system.

    Frequent Ejaculation
     
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  9. scott3085

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    ya I think if a girl looks at you shes interested cause girls can tell cause your pupils get dialated when you look at porn
     
  10. Landser

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    I have no problem with that. Usually girls approach me but i feel so insecure... I really hope that 90 days will fix at least that issue in my life...
     

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