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One of the Methods that helped to reach the 100 days

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by theoptimist, Jul 8, 2018.

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Feb 2, 2019 #81

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CoolBuddy7 said: ↑

Really Powerful and Great !
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Thanks

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #82

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Lethro said: ↑

Emergency relapse prevention material.
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Thanks!

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #83

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Rick Seng said: ↑

There should be a "love" button for this post rather than a simple like!!
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Thank you very much and sorry for the late reply, your kind words means a lot to me

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #84

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Optimistic100 said: ↑

Hy there I started masturbating when I was 14.I am having severe memory loss after wards.Blurry vision due to PMO.
I am now 17 years old.
I have quitted PMO since 40+ days.
Will my memory be back to normal.I remember how good it used to be when was not engaged in such sexual activities.
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To be honest, I don't know but I promise you that things will be great once you break your own streak. The only person that I try to compete with is Myself (I always try to break my previous record)

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #85

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Mr. Smiley said: ↑

I should thank you my friend I was feeling too bored today and thought of relapsing many times.
I kinda forget what porn does to you and those who are around you.
really thank you for making me remember @theoptimist.
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You are most welcome and congratulations on day 43!

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #86

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Average2Alpha said: ↑

These words come straight from the soul. Really moving. Thanks for the post
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Thank you for sharing this with me, I really cried while writing it.

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #87

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Angus2336 said: ↑

Simply brilliant
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Thanks and congratulations on day 37!

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #88

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White Sheep said: ↑

wow, that was really deep, thanks for posting that
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Thanks

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #89

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Haroldwho said: ↑

thank you for sharing!
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You are welcome and thanks for your kind words

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #90

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emeka71 said: ↑

Oh, I love this post. Thanks for sharing
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Thanks a lot! Congratulations on day 316, I would really like to keep contact with someone who is ahead of me in this journey. Do you have a whatsapp group?

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #91

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RiseToGreatness said: ↑

excellent idea. never thought on that . i will definitely use it and recommend it . thanks bro
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Yes, Please try it. It might help you during the tough times.

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

theoptimist, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 2, 2019 #92

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Nice work

g2stop, Feb 2, 2019

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Feb 3, 2019 #93

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Great and true words.

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Feb 3, 2019 #94

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These exact words could have come directly from my mind.

Thank you for sharing, I am inspired

My previous attempts have been solitary, but knowing this community is here gives me a new level of motivation and accountability.

Benl734, Feb 3, 2019

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Feb 9, 2019 #95

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Very emotional, i thought i was watching a video for my future if i didn't quit porn, thanks for this post.

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Feb 11, 2019 #96

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Great post!

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CoolKyle, Feb 11, 2019

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Feb 16, 2019 #97

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theoptimist said: ↑

Hello Everyone,

I heard it is physiologically healthy to write a goodbye letter to your addiction (Imagine your addiction as a person), that will help to recover. I wrote my letter and i would like to share with everyone here.

Dear Porn,

Thank you so much for being with me for almost the last 15 years of my life. You gave me a temporary good feeling during the hardest times of my life. Every failure or tough situation, I encountered in high school, bachelor degree or the Masters degree you were there for me even in the most stressful days during work, you helped me to feel better, when my father was diagnosed with lung cancer stage 2B, I was scared as hell and PMO was the only thing that made me feel better, when I moved to live in Germany during the toughest times of homesickness you were almost the only thing that made me feel happy or at least feeling temporary better, when the girl that I loved, broke up with me. The first thing that I did was running to my screen to have a dosage of relief even when I had a crush to another girl and she rejected me, I was running to home, like a dog running to catch a piece of meat but that feeling was always …always temporary and fake. For me that was not enough I always needed more and more. You (Porn) never solved any of my problems - You just numbed my feelings and emotions for some time.

I realised that your harms are far more than your benefits, I realised that I shouldn’t be alone and I should move on with my life. I should meet more people and seek my own happiness. I can’t support this industry - even thought I never spent any money on you. I can not increase the number of the viewers. I can not motivate people to invest time or money on building or expanding such an industry.

For the following reasons, I decided to stay away from you

A lot of people are suffering sexually because of you.

Some people lost their jobs because of you.

Some women suffers every single night because their partners can not satisfy them and they can not share their pain with anyone because of you.

Some innocent children will suffer and have a tough childhood because their parents will get divorced because of you.

Some young guys are becoming more and more depressed and they do not want to be connected with the real people because of you.

Many young men are diagnosed with ED and PE because of you.

Many guys are learning to treat women in a bad aggressive way because of you.

Some guys started to love beating girls because of you.

Some men objectify women and started to judge women based on their bodies & looks - not their characters because you.

Many married couples started to stop loving each others because they compares their partners with what they sees on the screen and that’s of course because of you.

Some innocent women are being insulted, humiliated and forced to work in this industry for the money, because of you.

Many people may suffer from deadly diseases because of you.

Even some pornstars died from deadly diseases or committed suicide whether because of extreme depression or overdose because of you.

Children younger than 13 years old are becoming porn addicts because of you.

Many people start comparing themselves with what they see on the screen and became more and more depressed because of you.

Some people might be future criminals because of you.

Many women were victims and got raped because of you.

Some women started to have desensitized gentials because of you.

Some addicts jumped to extreme categories such as aggressive porn or sex to children or animals because of you.

Even thought I didn't go to the extreme levels but I still might reach that level one day, I might miss you but I CAN’T … I really Can’t increase the numbers +1, I can not be selfish anymore, I can not be a hypocrite person, I never ever thought that I was destroying the society by watching porn but the truth is Yes, I did that. Before asking to change my surroundings, I should change myself first, then I will start helping others not to fall in the same trap that I fell into. Goodbye porn….…

P.S
Sorry for the grammer mistakes, English is not my first language.
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This was enlightening. Thanks for this post.
kruznick, Feb 16, 2019

kruznick, Feb 16, 2019

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Feb 16, 2019 #98

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Dude u are amazing. Thank u so much for your post

TheLoveDoctor, Feb 16, 2019

TheLoveDoctor, Feb 16, 2019

#98

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Feb 16, 2019 #99

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theoptimist said: ↑

Hello Everyone,

I heard it is physiologically healthy to write a goodbye letter to your addiction (Imagine your addiction as a person), that will help to recover. I wrote my letter and i would like to share with everyone here.

Dear Porn,

Thank you so much for being with me for almost the last 15 years of my life. You gave me a temporary good feeling during the hardest times of my life. Every failure or tough situation, I encountered in high school, bachelor degree or the Masters degree you were there for me even in the most stressful days during work, you helped me to feel better, when my father was diagnosed with lung cancer stage 2B, I was scared as hell and PMO was the only thing that made me feel better, when I moved to live in Germany during the toughest times of homesickness you were almost the only thing that made me feel happy or at least feeling temporary better, when the girl that I loved, broke up with me. The first thing that I did was running to my screen to have a dosage of relief even when I had a crush to another girl and she rejected me, I was running to home, like a dog running to catch a piece of meat but that feeling was always …always temporary and fake. For me that was not enough I always needed more and more. You (Porn) never solved any of my problems - You just numbed my feelings and emotions for some time.

I realised that your harms are far more than your benefits, I realised that I shouldn’t be alone and I should move on with my life. I should meet more people and seek my own happiness. I can’t support this industry - even thought I never spent any money on you. I can not increase the number of the viewers. I can not motivate people to invest time or money on building or expanding such an industry.

For the following reasons, I decided to stay away from you

A lot of people are suffering sexually because of you.

Some people lost their jobs because of you.

Some women suffers every single night because their partners can not satisfy them and they can not share their pain with anyone because of you.

Some innocent children will suffer and have a tough childhood because their parents will get divorced because of you.

Some young guys are becoming more and more depressed and they do not want to be connected with the real people because of you.

Many young men are diagnosed with ED and PE because of you.

Many guys are learning to treat women in a bad aggressive way because of you.

Some guys started to love beating girls because of you.

Some men objectify women and started to judge women based on their bodies & looks - not their characters because you.

Many married couples started to stop loving each others because they compares their partners with what they sees on the screen and that’s of course because of you.

Some innocent women are being insulted, humiliated and forced to work in this industry for the money, because of you.

Many people may suffer from deadly diseases because of you.

Even some pornstars died from deadly diseases or committed suicide whether because of extreme depression or overdose because of you.

Children younger than 13 years old are becoming porn addicts because of you.

Many people start comparing themselves with what they see on the screen and became more and more depressed because of you.

Some people might be future criminals because of you.

Many women were victims and got raped because of you.

Some women started to have desensitized gentials because of you.

Some addicts jumped to extreme categories such as aggressive porn or sex to children or animals because of you.

Even thought I didn't go to the extreme levels but I still might reach that level one day, I might miss you but I CAN’T … I really Can’t increase the numbers +1, I can not be selfish anymore, I can not be a hypocrite person, I never ever thought that I was destroying the society by watching porn but the truth is Yes, I did that. Before asking to change my surroundings, I should change myself first, then I will start helping others not to fall in the same trap that I fell into. Goodbye porn….…

P.S
Sorry for the grammer mistakes, English is not my first language.
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When i relapse.
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Feb 17, 2019 #100

rowans Fapstronaut

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theoptimist said: ↑

Hello Everyone,

I heard it is physiologically healthy to write a goodbye letter to your addiction (Imagine your addiction as a person), that will help to recover. I wrote my letter and i would like to share with everyone here.

Dear Porn,

Thank you so much for being with me for almost the last 15 years of my life. You gave me a temporary good feeling during the hardest times of my life. Every failure or tough situation, I encountered in high school, bachelor degree or the Masters degree you were there for me even in the most stressful days during work, you helped me to feel better, when my father was diagnosed with lung cancer stage 2B, I was scared as hell and PMO was the only thing that made me feel better, when I moved to live in Germany during the toughest times of homesickness you were almost the only thing that made me feel happy or at least feeling temporary better, when the girl that I loved, broke up with me. The first thing that I did was running to my screen to have a dosage of relief even when I had a crush to another girl and she rejected me, I was running to home, like a dog running to catch a piece of meat but that feeling was always …always temporary and fake. For me that was not enough I always needed more and more. You (Porn) never solved any of my problems - You just numbed my feelings and emotions for some time.

I realised that your harms are far more than your benefits, I realised that I shouldn’t be alone and I should move on with my life. I should meet more people and seek my own happiness. I can’t support this industry - even thought I never spent any money on you. I can not increase the number of the viewers. I can not motivate people to invest time or money on building or expanding such an industry.

For the following reasons, I decided to stay away from you

A lot of people are suffering sexually because of you.

Some people lost their jobs because of you.

Some women suffers every single night because their partners can not satisfy them and they can not share their pain with anyone because of you.

Some innocent children will suffer and have a tough childhood because their parents will get divorced because of you.

Some young guys are becoming more and more depressed and they do not want to be connected with the real people because of you.

Many young men are diagnosed with ED and PE because of you.

Many guys are learning to treat women in a bad aggressive way because of you.

Some guys started to love beating girls because of you.

Some men objectify women and started to judge women based on their bodies & looks - not their characters because you.

Many married couples started to stop loving each others because they compares their partners with what they sees on the screen and that’s of course because of you.

Some innocent women are being insulted, humiliated and forced to work in this industry for the money, because of you.

Many people may suffer from deadly diseases because of you.

Even some pornstars died from deadly diseases or committed suicide whether because of extreme depression or overdose because of you.

Children younger than 13 years old are becoming porn addicts because of you.

Many people start comparing themselves with what they see on the screen and became more and more depressed because of you.

Some people might be future criminals because of you.

Many women were victims and got raped because of you.

Some women started to have desensitized gentials because of you.

Some addicts jumped to extreme categories such as aggressive porn or sex to children or animals because of you.

Even thought I didn't go to the extreme levels but I still might reach that level one day, I might miss you but I CAN’T … I really Can’t increase the numbers +1, I can not be selfish anymore, I can not be a hypocrite person, I never ever thought that I was destroying the society by watching porn but the truth is Yes, I did that. Before asking to change my surroundings, I should change myself first, then I will start helping others not to fall in the same trap that I fell into. Goodbye porn….…

P.S
Sorry for the grammer mistakes, English is not my first language.
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thank you brother..
rowans, Feb 17, 2019

rowans, Feb 17, 2019

#100

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