35 and Older Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. srussell

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    I did reply. I'm not sure what happened. I've been working a lot of overtime at work and haven't been online much at all. I'm currently on day 102 of nofap as of this message.
     
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  2. @srussell I'm sorry but it was well over four weeks since the last time you commented. I keep track of this stuff. You can scroll back in the comments and see for yourself. If you want back in the group, I can add you to the waiting list, but it might be a few weeks before we have an opening for you. This is an accountability group. If you never check in with a comment, we have no way of knowing if you're still practicing nofap or not.
     
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  3. @discovery and @Freeman82 congratulations on reaching 90 days! I know it wasn't easy. You have been added to the new 90 Day Hall of Achievement.@Heretogrow, you have almost made it and @RightEffort is not far behind. Good luck to all of you and stay vigilant. I hope to be where you are in a mere 55 days. :D
     
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  4. @Bettermylife and @Journey2therealme - You have not commented on this thread in almost four weeks. If you read the rules when you joined, you know that means you will soon be removed from the member ranking. Reply to this comment if your counter is up to date and you want to stay in the group.
     
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  5. srussell

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    No thank you. It's not worth it. My job is more important to me than a petty penalty in this group. I'm an active supporter of nofap.com as shown under my name. That's my contribution. Hopefully others will contribute as well.
     
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  6. srussell

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    Please stop listing my name as an alumnus or for any other reason. I'm not part of this group and don't want to be mentioned anymore.
     
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  7. OK thanks for the feedback, I deleted all of it and will not mention anything like that in the future. On the other hand, I did not mention that much and sometimes guys do talk about similar things here but oh well, I'm a female. Alright. I also decided to limit my visits to this site due to my digital detox challenge and I will occupy myself with other self-development goals.
     
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  8. discovery

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    Wow that is awesome!! 90 Day Hall of Achievement, a great addition to the group. Thanks!! :emoji_man_dancing:
     
  9. hey there,
    I have to take some weeks off. Thanks for your support!
    namaste
     
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  10. Hey friend, I appreciate you receiving my feedback, and I hope it wasn't taken personally I really appreciate having your presence in our group. I know many others would also agree because you are devoted to improving yourself and you show it by your daily routines and actions and I personally have benefited so much from your posts and giving me support during my low depressed moments.

    What I'm basically saying is that I (we) love you as our own so please remember that you are amazing :)
     
  11. hey bro I just want to acknowledge you for taking the time to update the dashboard, cleaning up the group - I see you and the value your providing.

    PS. you are becoming a karma billionaire :D
     
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  12. hey bro - you have been a source of inspiration to many people here.

    but truth be told I personally tagged your name also (more than once) with no response, now we know why because you are working so much! :)

    This group though is for people who are interested in doing a regular weekly check in - this is to create a group momentum and have a sense of belonging to help each other - which is what we agreed on when we joined.

    Also worth mentioning, thank you so much for supporting the site. That's super kind of you considering your busy work situation.

    ...and let's not forget that some people on here (with no green tag) charge hundreds of dollars per hour in their own work and have super busy schedules and still choose to give their precious time on this site to help others (and themselves).

    Either way I wish you well may you reach your goals.
     
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  13. @RightEffort thanks for your appreciation for me supporting you in your depressed moments, however, after your last post pointing out my addict side talking about this or about that and triggering you and maybe not you made me feel even worse on the following day of my relapse when I was really at my lowest. Shouldn't have posted here at all. Whatever. Feeling emotional so I will just call it the end of discussion. I was triggered by loneliness and by my feelings for a guy we shared some fetishes with but I concluded that I wouldn't want my future SO to be addicted to P or fap to P more or less regularly so I stopped all communication with him for good. It was not because of my addict side conversing here and triggering everyone myself included.
     
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  14. Hey friend, I'm not happy about you feeling worst. That was not my intention. If I was aware that this is how you were going to perceive this I wouldn't have shared it like that. We are in this together on a journey and it is challenging at times. I have weak moments and you have seen me at my lows too. You are doing great, and you did the right thing for cutting that communication. Much love sister :)
     
  15. thekingfisher

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    Checking in here. I'm on my sixth day and feeling good. My urges have decreased in the last couple of weeks and making it to at least a week without PM seems to become easier. So even though I've relapsed a few times this year, I'm feeling much better and stronger.

    Congrats to the users who made it to their 90 days. You're role models and living proof of being able to beat it to those who are struggling.
     
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  16. AEC Josh2415

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    Hello friends. I'm just checking in to confirm that I am at 53 full days now.
     
  17. FreebirdFH

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    Thanks so much for the reply!
     
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  18. FreebirdFH

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    Interesting. Wonder if it's worth it to go to iphone. Been spending way, way too much time PMO. Blocked it on my laptop but not Android.
     
  19. FreebirdFH

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    Been PMO like I"ve always been. Rough. Just figured I'd sign in. Haven't for a long time. Still need a block on Android. Realize that's not the answer but still. Also using dating apps quite a bit and dont' really think of that as porn. Not sure what to do. Use it to feel less lonely for sure. Eesh. Android blocker would still be a big step forward. Wouild switch to iphone, but never had one and I use a PC laptop. Only reason would be because some people say the blocking is better.
     
  20. FreebirdFH

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    Anyone else have good success with blocking on iPhone?
     

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