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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. Now I won't comment ,unless I would make me capable to say 90/90.Cause I quitting mobile phone too.
     
  2. yeenyeenyeen

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    Day 12. If porn is dat good, why we want to quit? Think about it guys when u want to fap. When all the fap time pass, we feel empty, worthless and regret. Not anymore!!!
     
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  3. renaissancemerveilleuse

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  4. icantbelieveit

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  5. aznric3boi

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    Dary 38/90. I really can't belive I made it this far... i really think i'm emotionally and mentally healing. my gf gave me a hand job last night for the first time in a few weeks and it felt pretty amazing to say the least. :)
     
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  6. Srisurya

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    Day 13/90 started. keep it up guys we can do this. One Day At A Time. Cheers guys.
     
  7. Meep

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  8. Nekkhamma

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    Haha sounds good brother I’ll try, good luck!
     
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  9. Nekkhamma

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    2/90...good day with lots of quality time with family and good friend, now to work out, meditate, finish washing clothes and sleep
     
  10. Cody Dinh

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    For now, I've not been doing without PMO for 8 days but yesterday I got "wet dream". May I ask all of you that It's counted or not?. I hope you guys could overcame any obstacles. I always stand by you buddy. I'm on day 8/30. We are the best
     
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  11. Nekkhamma

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    Wet dreams don’t count...even Buddhist monks can have wet dreams and it doesn’t mean they broke their celibacy. You’re okay, keep going brother!
     
  12. lifeinhell

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    Challenge accepted. May we both become successful in this.


    hmm. a bit of a over-confidence don't you think, "enemy"?


    Also day 1 done.
     
  13. Day 31/90, feeling great! No temptations and starting to feel more feelings as I abstain from numbing myself out with porn. Life is good! Stay strong friends!
     
  14. Cody Dinh

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    Thank you your compliments and I really appreciate it bro. Can we go together? We will stay optimistic, persistent and another thing is important that Listen our heart. We'll be stronger. I always stand by all of you. Have a great day.
     
  15. jdunbar

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  17. TorreDelOnion

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  18. Gangster2Tess

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  19. Good morning Brother,
    Thanks for reaching out. Someone asked me this question the other day and I typed the following response. I hope this helps you.
    1. I started trusting my spiritual practice. I have heard before that feelings are transitory and that suffering is an illusion so I put it to the test for the first time. When I had strong urges, I watched them, without engaging them, to see how much they last and to truly see if I was going to suffer by not releasing...i learned that they didnt last long, and that after they were gone I felt better...I also learned that if I did an activity, gym or playing my flute for example, the urges would dissapear more quickly. So a backup plan has been helpful to me. All of this is temporary.

    2. I also learned to take things lightly. It is not a catastrophe if I do PMO, it is just an act or a tool that I can use to learn about me with compassion. Also, it is not a huge accomplisment to be pmo free for 64 days. It is just another day in the journey. It is all relative to your purpose. I think PMO had a lot more power in my life because I was making a bigger deal regarding the good/bad duality than it was. This helped me in seeing me in a lighter way too, more gentle with me, more compassionate.

    3. I also treat myself with every two weeks milestone, every paycheck...I could choose to go to a movie, or go out to eat at a fancy restaurant, or get in the jacuzzy at the gym, or get a reputable massage, or pedicure. Something to celebrate.

    I hope this helps bro. Take it one day at a time...you got this and the brotherhood in this challenge is strong.
     
  20. RiseToGreatness

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    very good, keep it up!!!
     

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