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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. Marin333!

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  2. Marin333!

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    :emoji_sun_with_face:
     
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  3. Srisurya

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    Day 1/90 coming to an end. Today is a day full of fun for me in class. and also time to submit my projects. One things is that even if I am relapsing, it not like before like wanting pmo everyday. now even if I am relapsing I am failing by sext with girls and all but not through p alone. I know relapsing is what we have to avoid. And I will try my best not to relapse. most of the days I am living as if porn doesnt exist. Exams are coming near again. I am reading my novel as usual. cheers guys.

    edit: Well I don't regret relapse like before time but I do have in mind not to relapse.
     
  4. Marin333!

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    Lots of energy and confidence definitely, feeling a lot better then I was a couple weeks ago
    This is my first time ever doing this so I'm not trying to get too ahead of myself here but man does this feel great!
    I went from binge watching P on occasions and M maybe 2-4 times a week to 0, cold turkey that was the hardest part
    Not gonna lie, the first 3 weeks were hell. I did a lot of risky stuff that could have lead to a relapse but I gave myself forgiveness and told myself to have faith in the process, this helped a lot in the beginning.
    I'll give a summery of my progress thus far:

    Mentally: The further I stray from watching porn and masturbation, the more I feel my mind healing from all the damage I've done to it over several years. Whenever I catch myself in a fantasy or sexual thought, I quickly get disgusted with myself and shut it down with a non-sexual thought. My goal is by the end of this reboot to reduce the number of sexual thoughts I have until I have a clean concious. Thought blocking/control can be exhausting sometimes but it works for the most part. Whenever I feel myself ruminating or worrying needlessly I try to keep myself busy with either free writing in my journal or puzzle games like Sudoku or Mahjong on my phone.

    Physically: I feel like I am in control of my body. I've made a habit of going to the gym every week since I started this streak and have been seeing some results. Also have made a habit of not touching myself at all unless I'm peeing, this helps a lot because sometimes I touch myself unconsciously out of a nervous habit I've had since I was a child, slowly breaking away from this behavior and embracing my masculinity as a young adult. Cold showers and exercise have been huge helpers in this department

    Socially: Still a bit of an awkward person, always have been but I notice that I am much more forward with people and not afraid to speak my mind as much(I guess this comes with the whole confidence thing but again not trying to get too cocky here). I have a desire to be more receptive and compassionate to people then I did when I engaged in PMO. I'm also more willing to just let things go in social situations, before I was a jealous mess that would often just snap at people for no reason. I'm still working on being more comfortable around others but knowing me this may take some time. Overall just trying to get along with others and give off a more friendly/pleasant vibe rather than being miserable and irritable all the time. I still have difficultly in this field as people in general just kind of irritate me, but I'll get there.

    Spiritually: I feel like I gaining my old self again, that is when I still had innocence before I found internet porn. Unfortunately, I found porn at a very age and without even knowing it I was helplessly addicted to it(really sad when I think about it:(). Now that I'm grown up, I have the will power to stand up against this and undo all the damage I've done in my early years. Because of this, I'm much more aware of my actions towards others, I'm trying to practice forgiveness and accept what life has given me and moving on with it. I'm slowly regaining my innocence and take joy in the little things(like sunrises :emoji_sun_with_face:) .I no longer want to just exist, I want to grow and improve.

    I had a really bad urge to M this morning so I woke up earlier than I usually do and did push-ups to shake it off
    The things I've been doing to replace my bad habit are transferring that pent up sexual energy into physical exertion(exercise) and writing all my thoughts and feelings everyday in a personal journal on my laptop(I'm only writing for myself so since there's no audience I just write whatever the hell I want, it's quite therapeutic!)
    This is what has been helping me cope with abstaining from PMO, hope this helps you in your journey
    TL;DR- I've been replacing my bad PMO habits with healthy ones and seeing improvements in my life. :)
    (Sorry if that's a lot but I am eager to share and wish to help people like you who are struggling just like me)
     
  5. Enginakos

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    Day 8 here. However i had a bit of edging today which is a worrying sign. But stayed strong... My regards to all the brothers!
     
  6. darealnwa

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    masturbated over 3 times since this morning i am so done , i hope i have the willpower to survive this, starting right now .
     
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  7. Idiotos

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    Still Day 0/90
    I wanna be a great man, man. Great men can control their urges. I won't pmo if it's harming me.
     
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  8. PowerfulSRE

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  9. PowerfulSRE

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    Thank you for sharing. Your post is going to help me to go through the day!
     
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  10. Harrylucid

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    Just 7 letters for you . .. A. M. A. Z. I. N. G
     
  11. Meep

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    Day 26 school has been cancelled yesterday and today havnt worked out monday and tuesday but today to saturday i will work out but uh yeah no urges at all now
     
  12. aznric3boi

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    Day 53/90.... 37 days more day left. April 19th, 2019 is the day I complete my first 90 days challenge of the journey. I am commited making this victory.
     
  13. Meep

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    You got to take the w man
     
  14. Anamikudu

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    thankyou so much
     
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  15. Anamikudu

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  16. Captain Anurag

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    Day 22
     
  17. DetroitRok

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    Gonna call this day 1.

    Do I continue to have sex with my wife during the 90 days?
     
  18. Getting_Free_From_Porn

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  19. cubkleo

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    Yo, I should have posted this yesterday but I'm reallyyyy sorry I got so much deadlines and projects to do I forgot to check in here yesterday!
    Last Saturday I edged but was unsure if edging was a relapse or not. So I asked the nofap community and it turns out edging is indeed a harmful activity.
    But no worries. I feel pretty confident since I'm gradually learning how to deal with the urges more effectively now, and, this week got me a lot of work to do. Monday and Tuesday have passed with my to-do list all checked. So yeah, I may have fallen, but I arise back!
     
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