Planning for my first nudist beach experience

I am trying to figure out if I'm headed in a crazy direction or I'm being more "liberal" with my body because I'm more in control now?

Last year i went looking for hedonist or clothing optional resorts.
I was in cancun, it seemed like a good idea at the time... lol.

well, I found a went to the closest thing to it, and apart from being crazy expensive, it was really cool. I think it was quasi-swinger, and gay, (not my thing mind you), but I was just checking it out by myself. The staff wore those tennis skirt things and one waitress seemed to suggest that she was open to more stuff, but another guest (female) beat me to it, and I let it go.

Overall, after this, I wanted to challenge myself with going nude. I returned to the US super motivated to get in the best shape of my life, kick PMO, and go to the nudist beach with a very friendly chick I met on the plane a late last year while going to Costa Rica...yes this is a true story.

So here I am about 4 months into my training, I joined the site to help with overall goals, and fitness awareness etc, but I'm rethinking some of what I envision happens at the beach....

I assume someone here has wanted to, or done this and can give some counsel on what to expect, or if this would be just another SA behavior.

 

Yes married, and been separated for 5 years.

 

right on. I am using it like a challenge to see if I can handle being without clothes, it's more of a self-goal than a sexual thing for me, I had decided to do it by myself initially, but was open to company too.

 

I am sure I don't have the prize for "tried the most crazy stuff" but I have done lots and this present one, "nudist beach" is kinda a challenge for me to see if I can handle the challenge. Like others have said, I went to a clothing optional resort, and did for curiosity not for sexual fantasy; I'm kinda into conquering my lusts, hence my word choice of "control".

As for restarting the counter, yeah I have a 1-day streak every day, (currently on day 5), and I'm not trying very hard, I'm just trying to connect and change how I feel about rebooting.

I know there is that "phase" where you bare down, and fight, then when you fail, you binge, or give up. Well, after all that's over, I guess you try again, but with an "lighter attitude." That's where I am after years of fighting, I'm not too tired to fight, I just don't "hate this thing" as much as I used to because it's so damn invasive.

Going to a nudist beach is on my bucket list, I'm not really thinking I am concerned about whether I get laid or not. Another one on my list is carnival, which again I missed this year... will have to go to another thread.

 

exactly. I want to get to the point where it's NOT a turn on. So therefore not a temptation and I won't be allured by the prospect of nudity. Does that make sense? I know where I went last there, I was laughing because most of the nudity was from either fat, old, or gay folks. Not what I had envisioned, so it was kinda funny to see.

 

man, for real, I want to. India is on the bucket list; but the girls are not as open I was told... like as a non-indian; Is that true? I went to Guyana where there is lots of what we call "east indian" you probably just call them Indian.. but some of the best roti, for reaalllll!!!

I love indian food, culture, history, actually my family is from Trinidad so we have lots of indian overtones... I would love to visit Goa someday... I'm sure i would have a good time yo

 

I appreciate your attitude; I think I'm using nudism as a mirror to push myself to be in the best shape of my life, then conquer the shame that normally I heap on myself after years of PMO... think of it as a recovery plan then antidote to shame.

That's what I'm asking. If I am taking care of my body to the max, then shame will be defeated; no?
Not saying bodybuilders don't have esteem problems, I know they do, but why not converge these two and have good health, good body, higher self-esteem and conquer fear of being judged while naked?

 

Wow. let me tell you a true story, I went to a hostal in Cancun earlier this year (nomads hostal chain) and the host/tour guide told us about one time a couple was in cancun for honeymoon. The locals (mexicans) were taking them to isla mujeres, just like they did us. well, about 3 of the tour guys went on one trip, and the couple who was there on their honeymoon, on like day #3 the husband and wife had a fight. The wife went to the pool and started to flirt with the tour guides. The guys said to each other, don't talk to that guest because she is here on her honeymoon; they were americans he told me... Well, she was drinking and threw herself on the guys, and one of them ended up going off with her. The next day, the hotel manager came with the husband and the police, they arrested the guy and he got 10 years for RAPE. Yeah... obviously the wife was embarassed and the only thing she came up with was that; so yeah, be careful for real.