THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

Wow, A golden line of advice. A good one, It tells almost everything about our Addiction to Porn.

Exactly !

 

Check in day 2 done, All praises to God

 

If you got to praise God for 2 days. Shit real.

 

I literally died reading this , but, @prince san , @BeastBoyBalling didn't mean no offence.

 

Oh it's more complicated than that I think. I have a high libido so for me sex was also an important aspect in porn in terms of how to spice things up, various positions etc. But if you look at how women are portrayed in porn, for instance in lesbian videos, it's not only that their body orifices are shown close-up, the overall picture puts huge pressure on ordinary women.. perfect bodies, perfect tits, booties, make-up, hair, outfit, high heels, lipstick, nails.. It's the same pressure as in mass media, diet industry, and everywhere - the message for ordinary women is that they need to be perfect and to do THESE things in order to get pleasured by a man, or to get attention from him. It's like we see hardcore sex there and we feel like animals inside us when we PMO but on the other side there's that pressure on body image and this leaves us feeling like shit afterwards because we will never measure up. Those porn stars they do just that for a living, they train for hours or days before the filming, with fake tits and maybe fake booties. I think the main point that the whole body of a woman is objectified in the eyes of men and shown as perfect ideal in the eyes of women. And does this have to do with sex anyway? Sex is connection, union of two people. For me sex is sacred and casual and sex don't go together, that is against my values. And we all know that perfect cannot be achieved and maintained every day in a row. During this NoFap journey I also logged off social media and I don't watch TV or check media news and I feel really free inside, I mean, really in love with my own body - or at least starting to love her.

 

You guys are right, I will get out. My first mistake was not logging in everyday made it easier for porn to get in the way. I need an efficient way to stop triggers. I will try to just get outside and go for a walk a change in environment may help.

 

Never give up! Keep at it, you've got what it takes to defeat PMO and conquer your life.
Take care my friend.

I am up for the challenge buddy! May the best warrior win!

 

Awesome comment.
I agree with the casual and sex don’t go together.
What I want most in sex is the emotional connection.

 

Of course I want to date my best friend and have a goal of getting married whoever I may date (reason I think I have been single all this time, learning on trying to keep these casual at first when it comes to meeting new ppl and going on dates) ... is okay that I’m attracted to cute women with colored hair?

 

Who is not? Now todays question. Why you doing this to settle down with a single person? Nowadays every second marriage ends in divorce, most of the relationships do not go over a month. I know you are lonely. But todays question is...Why do you guys, girls look for the one? Let me know what you all think.

 

I don't know, trying to settle searching for someone as soon as possible. You know, someone you can have around as soon as possible, and also someone with you from as early as possible, which means you have more time with them, and you've already found someone for you, and don't have to go looking for anything of that sorts anymore ? If they're with you for a long time, and you love them, then you both can go through so much together, for a really long time.
Maybe if you intended to ask it more off like, Why only one ? Why not two ?? Then, perhaps, I think it's difficult to even have one, if it's feasible, maybe then people would go on for more...

Hey, Beast. This everyday question seems like a really great and cool Idea. We can sure get to know other's opinion on stuff through this. Great idea ! Thanks for this.

 

First we have to find ourselves and have a true relationship with ourselves - only then we can start searching for our other half. When we feel we want to - not when we need to.

 

I didn't really get this part !

 

Need to ask clearer. Why searching for a half when you are a whole?

 

Oh I formulated this the wrong way, sorry. When you need someone - you are not whole, you lack love. And when you want someone - you want to meet him or her to share your happiness with them. Needing is codependency.

 

Hi

 

In to day 1 feeling motivated nothing will stop me now. Turns super Saiyan