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URGENT MESSAGE!!!!!!

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Denzel889, Apr 28, 2019.

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  1. Apr 28, 2019 #1
    Denzel889

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    I have a question for you guys.. I am in love with a girl and I think she is also.. She works in a shop.. We are the same age.. I kissed her twice and hugged her in the shop and we really had a very good time together.. but then the other day she blocked me and said that she has a bf and that we cannot be together.. We still talk when we see each other in person though.. But I don't know what to do.. How can I approach her and be with her?
     
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  2. Apr 28, 2019 #3
    InnerFaith

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    leave her alone, she has a boyfriend therefore its immoral to look for her company.
     
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  3. Apr 28, 2019 #4
    Infrasapiens

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    Well, a gentleman do not tries anything with a lady that is already taken. If she has a boyfriend then you should look for someone else to be in a relationship with. Just do not "Friendzone" yourself.
     
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  4. Apr 28, 2019 #4
    Denzel889

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    NOT GONNA LISTEN TO YOU.. SHE LOVES ME.. I KNOW SHE DOES
     
    Denzel889, Apr 28, 2019
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  5. Apr 28, 2019 #5
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    I have but one suggestion for approaching women. Do not do it at their work, while they are working. They can't leave and must interact with you. It's not fair. They are basically trapped because they have a shift to finish. Other then that I have no further comments.
     
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  6. Apr 28, 2019 #6
    Denzel889

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    YOU WERE NOT THERE WHEN WE KISSED.. I KNEW IMMEDIATELY THAT SHE LOVES ME AS MUCH AS I LOVE HER.. SO DON'T TELL ME THAT I SHOULD LEAVE HER
     
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  7. Apr 28, 2019 #7
    Denzel889

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    Thank you.. I appreciate your comment.. Yes I know but love doesn't have limits and it just happened in the shop.. F*ck it.. It is what it is
     
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  8. Apr 28, 2019 #8
    Denzel889

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    I did not know that she was taken.. And also that may be an excuse so I get distracted from her..
     
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  9. Apr 28, 2019 #9
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    Just one clarification. Is this a shop where she is incentivized financially if she can get customers to love her? Is she tipped? Does she offer a service that builds a repeat and loyal fan base?

    I just want to make sure you aren't being manipulated.
     
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  10. Apr 28, 2019 #10
    Denzel889

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    No, what are you talking about? It's a regular grocery shop with foods, drinks and things like that.. We talked with each other for quiet a long time then we came together and kissed each other
     
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  11. Apr 28, 2019 #11
    Infrasapiens

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    If that is the case, then just doesn't sees you a person to be in a relationship with. You should move on.
     
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  12. Apr 28, 2019 #12
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    That's good. I'm talking about a bartender, waitress, masseuse, stripper, etc. Like a job where you can make money from lonely and nieve people if you manipulate them into thinking they love you. I'm glad that isnt your situation :).
     
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  13. Apr 28, 2019 #13
    Denzel889

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    Well, we'll see about that... It might be because she thinks I might hurt her feelings or sth like that
     
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  14. Apr 28, 2019 #14
    Denzel889

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    I wouldn't try those in the first place..
     
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  15. Apr 28, 2019 #15
    Denzel889

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    She's a shop assistant
     
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  16. Apr 28, 2019 #16
    Infrasapiens

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    It is a possibility, but in my opinion, the best way to prove you won't do that to her is self-improvement. Become a better person, exercise, develop interests, etc. But always have this in mind, you do self-improvement for yourself, not for someone or something else.
     
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  17. Apr 28, 2019 #17
    Denzel889

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    Also I am 22 and she is 23 yo
     
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  18. Apr 28, 2019 #18
    Denzel889

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    You are very right about that.. I worked on myself a lot during this last month and will continue to..
     
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  19. Apr 28, 2019 #19
    Infrasapiens

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    Excellent, keep doing it.
     
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  20. Apr 28, 2019 #20
    Denzel889

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    I saw that you have a question in your profile about sex.. Just approach women no matter what, talk to them, be around them, flatter them and you will find one
     
    Denzel889, Apr 28, 2019
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