Hocd or denial please help!!!!!

You've already said it yourself that there's nothing wrong with being gay. Surely you don't sound gay--think about it we're all here cause we've realized we have a problem--meaning a hell ton of people are on here as a result of escalation, including myself. The person you were before porn is the real you and even after beating this addiction you will be even stronger. I assume gay/cuck/fem P isn't what you started off with either.

 

HOCD is surprisingly common among pmo addicts. I find it quite expected since we are used to be aroused by seeing another man and another penis, not just a woman. It's just an overlap of stimuli and you end up pairing your arousal with a man, not just with a woman. Normally you would never see another man in a sexual context, you'd only see a woman.

Also, all porn is cuckold porn, so you really need to stop watching it.

 

This is probably escalation. Stay away from pmo. Hocd is quite common here. There is nothing wrong with not accepting those thoughts, you have identity crisis and everyone needs some degree of belonging and integirty.

 

Do you feel attracted to men?

 

So you have thoughts like "Maybe I'm gay" "What happens if I'm gay?". Are these thoughts intrusive? Do you try to suppress them?

 

Don't worry, that kind of anxiety is very common around here, it was porn that made you think like that, it is not you. I would suggest to not even think about it and just focus on NoFap. If you do NoFap then one day those thoughts will just disappear. You just have to be patient.

 

If it's due to OCD that will be very hard .

 

No one said NoFap is easy.

 

I didn't talk about this part of the sentence.

I was talking about the first part:

 

But how often do you have these thoughts? Like every now and then? Or almost all the time?

Cause if you have them like once every two or three days its nothing to worry about. But if you have these thoughts various times a day it's a clear hint for OCD.

 

You aren’t gay

It’s like saying I like rap music, do you think I might have black ancestry...

Or

I love pizza..do you think I’m adopted and am really Italian?

Both sound absurd right?

Gay people are attracted to guys as strongly as you are attracted to girls.

You don’t start becoming gay.

Do girls turn your head?

When you go to the beach(pool ) do you notice girls or guys?

When you think on your day at the beach, can you remember guys you saw? Maybe a couple

What about the girls..prob all and prob vividly.

It’s the porn you watched that’s conditioned you, pure brainwashing.

Stop watching porn.

 

id like to know the same

 

hey guys this has happened to me too and now it has minipulated my thoughts and arousal where when i test my self with sexual thoughts about it i get somewhat aroused when guys dress as girls and this has never happened to me . Also when i test myself it is porn scenes.

 

Stop "testing" yourself, it is not necessary and just makes things worse. Focus just on NoFap and with time your thoughts will be sorted out.