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Sex after abstinence

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by fidofabstro, May 8, 2019.

  1. May 8, 2019 #1
    fidofabstro

    fidofabstro New Fapstronaut

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    Hi,
    I'm on my second longer PMO streak now and going pretty strong. I'm at day 51 and aim to reach at least 90 days. I'm in a very early stage of a potential long term relationship. At some point sex would be unavoidable and I'd like to, but I feel that after restraining from O-ing for such a long time I'm gonna explode the next time I will have intercourse. How do I deal with that and still be able to control myself and enjoy it.
    It's great that I found this platform to talk about this stuff.
     
    fidofabstro, May 8, 2019
    fidofabstro, May 8, 2019
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  2. May 9, 2019 #2
    RiverSmoothStone

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    If it's a possible long-term relationship, maybe be up front about the porn thing before getting to the point where you're about to have sex? That way, you can meet your 90 day goal without feeling pressured to have sex sooner and she'll know that sex might be weird for you the first time or two. I'm no expert though (I've had one relationship ever, but I didn't tell her about porn and I regret it), so take this with a grain of salt.
     
    RiverSmoothStone, May 9, 2019
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  3. May 12, 2019 #3
    fidofabstro

    fidofabstro New Fapstronaut

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    I guess it would be most honest to just talk about the situation. Probably makes me feel more at ease and also would explain my behavior towards her. I think it's good advise, thanks.
     
    fidofabstro, May 12, 2019
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