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I feel alone.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Infrasapiens, May 11, 2019.

  1. Awedouble

    Awedouble Fapstronaut

    In general yes, I think it is very hard to assess someones character through posts, "back in the day" when people did connect more deeply online it was also a simpler time and I think the content of the conversations were simpler. I guess I would say at best maybe see a possibility. It may be a stretch but it is possible that some of us here may meet in person. If we take this stuff seriously we might find ourselves speaking at a conference or something, down the road..
     
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  2. All I can offer you is:
    keep plugging away and let your relationships develop, then you'll have an idea of who you can trust with what information.
     
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  3. Yeah, it’s also kind of their job anyways, and lots of them enjoy helping others. Why else would they want to become a staff member?
     
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  4. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    I don't know. To have absolute power over recovering perverts?
     
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  5. Ok yeah maybe some of them are like that but there’s gotta be some that aren’t like that. Just try it, if they are sketch than skrt skrt but if they have helpful advice than great. Like I said before, it’s all good if you don’t wanna open up but if it’s gonna kill you, you gotta take the chance.
     
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  6. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    I suppose I have nothing to lose.
     
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  7. Souvent08

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    I dont know enough about you but it seems like you either know yourself well or you are starting to know yourself. This is something very few people do. In my opinion, people rather distract themselves instead of discover their desires and weaknesses. It is a great to do that. People do that way too late in life. People in your life might not do what you are doing. This might make you feel lonely. I suggest you continue to come here and continue to know yourself. Life is more meaningful that way.
     
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  8. Yeah lotta people I know just seem to waste away their lives and not actually try to make friendships even if they are cool and it’s really annoying
     
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  9. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    Well, I have seen older people act like they shouldn't so I suppose I am trying to fix myself before I reach that age.
     
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  10. Souvent08

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    Yeah, you are seeing and thats a great thing but also a hard thing because its a lonely place to be. In my opinion, you’ll get to an older age and be glad you learned at a young age. It’s what people call wisdom. Just dont forget to have fun and sometimes forget about being so mature and different from the rest. For example, if you think that a sportsis violent and shouldn’t be played. But that sport is popular. It’s okay to have the negative thoughts but it wouldn’t hurt to watch a game once in a while with the company of people you care about.
     
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  11. Souvent08

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    Yeah, sometimes you just got to focus of yourself and being the best version of yourself. Which begins by knowing yourself. This is something I’ve been learning lately. So I noticed that watching porn and masturbation was a problem for me. I know that now and I am changing that. Hopefully becoming a better person in the process.
     
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  12. Some great advice here! I really agree with the part about having inside wisdom apart from everyone else. Just remember to have patience with you and others, especially yourself.
     
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  13. Souvent08

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    Very good point. It takes a long time.
     
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