For married people on this site

I have sex about five to seven times a week and take my wife to bed about one to three times.

 

He's joking.

I would say my spouse and I only have sex about once or twice a week. But that's just because that's what works for us and what we both want. If we wanted to do it more often or less often, we would make the time.

 

Marriage is not a cure-all for PMO addiction. Sure, it could help with dealing with increased sex drive so long as it’s healthy and consensual, but most people don’t magically stop watching porn or having a sex addiction just because they’re married. If you wank to porn due to stress, then just keep in mind that a marriage does have its stressful events.

 

Very true. I never even started watching porn until after I was married, and obviously I'm here right now for a reason. I would say marriage foes make it easier in some ways, but it's definitely not a magic fix

 

It has slowed down for us since we had a baby but before that is was about every other day.
It can be more difficult in some ways. There are a lot of factors when you are in a relationship.

 

Zero. I haven't had sex with my wife in two years. She has lost interest since menopause and I don't enjoy sex with someone who isn't turned on. When we were first married, we had sex daily, then once or twice a week, then maybe monthly. We have been married for 20 years. I am 52 and she is 54. I am still pretty horny, but when I try to get it on, she just doesn't get very excited. I have trouble maintaining an erection in these circumstances.

 

Have you guys talked to your wives about this and told them how you feel?

 

I've been married 22 years. PA for 35 years. Sex was always good when we started dating, several times a day, every day. It diminishes over time... With children, work, life changes....

Porn was always there to comfort me when she worked different shifts than I did... Or when I was in the mood and she wasn't.

Some times when we are getting along we can do it 2 or 3 nights a week but then go a few weeks without.

Marriage isn't a golden ticket to sex whenever you feel like it... It's not an escape from PMO.

 

My baby's mother comes over a couple times a week. 4-5 times a week seems to be the average.

 

He was asking married couples. That's not marriage.

 

We don't live together because she has school 1hr away. I think this works out quite well because I still see my kid and have time to myself. She'll back with me for the summer.

Technicallyin the states I'm still considered her husband because I have a kid with her. The courts don't see it any other way so it makes no difference if I throw fancy wedding or not.

 

Was that a Freudian slip, lol.