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remind me why we doing this again ..

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by kittyintheworld, May 27, 2019.

  1. kittyintheworld

    kittyintheworld Fapstronaut

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    i feel like i keep forgetting why i am doing NoFap
    i am not trying hard enough or not focusing hard enough
     
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  2. Danton_7

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    We are doing this so that you can look yourself in the mirror and be proud of yourself.

    To stop fapping on some pixels, and use that time to actually do something productive.

    And lastly, I do this because, i can then look at my parents and sisters face and not be ashamed of myself.

    Thanks and best of luck!
     
  3. llortaton

    llortaton Fapstronaut

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    You know that feeling you get after you fap.

    Yeah--- THAT'S WHY WE'RE DOING IT!
     
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  4. From my journal:

     
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  5. johnmicormick

    johnmicormick Fapstronaut

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    To improve ourselves, to feel comfortable with ourselves and to love ourselves. Because when you don’t it’s dangerous, you don’t really care what happens to you and it sets you on a self destructive path where you hurt pretty much everyone you love
     
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  6. mikmak

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    we are doing it so that we can appreciate real beauty , we can make real love, we can live our life to the fullest and enjoy every second of it.
     
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  7. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

    Porn is wrong, wrong for us, our relationships, and for the world (the women in the porn industry are damaged by it and porn infects our attitudes towards women everywhere). Why would you want to be part of that?

    Also looking back at what you have written may help renew motivation:

     
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  8. bfdet

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    Everyone has their own reasons, including you, for starting a noPMO journey of healing. Make some time to think about what brought you here and why you created an account and started your journey of healing. Are the reasons you came here and they goals you originally thought of relevant to your life right now ? If not, adjust them so they are meaningful to you today. Writing down your goals and objectives and reasons "why I am here" often can help clarify thinking, so try writing down your reasons. Then think about how you will keep your goals and objectives fresh in your mind each day. When we lose sight of our goals, our reasons "why", motivation weakens and resets and relapses often follow. There are lots of ways to help remember your goals. One easy way is to re-read each and every day - twice or more if you are feeling tempted - the goals and "why's" you've written down.

    There are other things you can, and perhaps should, do. The above things will get you started.
     
  9. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    Do you find it challenging? If yes you are probably addicted to porn and masturbation. Do NoFap to get over this addiction
     
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  10. kittyintheworld

    kittyintheworld Fapstronaut

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    Yeap definetely not in control of my emotions . Whenever a strong problem imposes i masturbate to just forget abt it .. forget abt everything .. for a tims being but then . I keep ignoring my problems i keep ignoring my prepartions . I keep ignoring the hard work i have to put
     
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  11. kittyintheworld

    kittyintheworld Fapstronaut

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    I think i dont care abt what happens to me anymore ... like i should feel some feels abt things but all i can think abt it ignorance
     
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  12. kittyintheworld

    kittyintheworld Fapstronaut

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    Dude . U made me cry.
     
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  13. Cause why not? Better feel cute, better feel nice, strong, attractive and just yourself rather than walking corpse
     
  14. llortaton

    llortaton Fapstronaut

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    How do you cry?
    I want to cry at things, sometimes, but I'm so emotionless, lost, lazy, tired, I can't cry...

    Maybe, I just have a stone heart. :(
     
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  15. kittyintheworld

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    Sometimes its good to be a stone . Not always though.

    I can cry all the time .
    Thats not good either .

    U have to find a good balance . Like cry at 3 in the night not front of the class. ..

    I have done both.
     
  16. llortaton

    llortaton Fapstronaut

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    Oh.... :(
     
  17. kittyintheworld

    kittyintheworld Fapstronaut

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    Dont be sad.
     
  18. llortaton

    llortaton Fapstronaut

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    I'm just lost...
    I don't know why I'm here.

    My ultimate goal is to change the world one day.

    I don't know if I will even start at that goal... Procrastination is destroying me.
     
  19. kittyintheworld

    kittyintheworld Fapstronaut

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    You know what.
    I am not gonna fail neither this exam nor my pmo issues.

    After coming this long in both my journeys. I am not gonna quit. Even if i fail my exam i am going to learn stuff so next time i pass for sure. I am gonna fight back. Bcoz i am a smart girl . I cant lose after studying this long.
    I am gonna learn from all my mistakes this time .

    And my pmo issues. Well i am gonna start afresh abt that too . I am relapsing constantly and i am not trying my best. But this instance i am going to put some effort.

    I think some time away from social media and overall screens can make me really happy and get my life together .
    I think my screen addiction is the same as my pmo. Dont wanna deal with stuff so lets put a screen in front. Nothing to do on the screen lets pmo.

    Atleast till this exam is over. I wanna do this. away from the screens away from constant scrolling .
    If i actually fail .i know its me who is accountable and no one else. I did not study thats on me . But i wanna try . Just for this one time for myself.

    If anyones got tips on screen time control give them .
    I think i might start with one day away from devices. Then see how i can progress. Honestly i feel like i am scrolling my life away on instagram .
    Bcoz all i remember abt last 2.5 yrs is ... me near screens.
     
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  20. kittyintheworld

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    Thats not only u .
    Change urself . And the world around will automatically change.

    Ps- i am procrastinating ryt now. So its not only u .
     
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