[365-CHALLENGE] THE THREE HUNDRED AND SIXTY FIVE DAYS CHALLENGE !

16/30 Feeling good

 

Relapseeeee...(31 relapses in 11 days total)

 

30/365

 

Do not use your computer or phone for a few days.
Pay money next time you relapse
Tell yourself it is not normal behavior
If you are still growing,this is preventing you from being a stronger and taller person that you would have been without this fake filth and ruining your chances in later life.
Women deserve respect.
Now to shock you..
I hope the women you have been viewing are still alive.God knows what happens in that dangerous
industry.

 

212 days completed.

 

The 38th

Another great day to look forward to.

 

Learn from the mistakes of others. As I said before you are young but you don't have a lifetime to make the same mistakes over and over again.

 

32/365

 

Day 33

 

Hey everyone! I haven't been on here for a while. I successfully completed 90 days over the winter, so I need to move on to this thread. During the spring I had a handful of relapses and am starting to feel myself slipping towards old patterns. So, I'm back on here and ready to take on 365!

I'm married now, so I will be doing PM (not PMO). I'm strongly motivated to complete this challenge because of how much porn hurts my wife when I relapse. Also, my drive to be affectionate and sexual with my wife is directly (and negatively) affected by any porn use on my end. Finally, I've been through a past marriage where porn had an extremely detrimental effect and caused a lot of the pain and dysfunction that led to our failure.

I am very grateful for your support and bravery in taking on this fight!

Day 0

(PS my clock turns over at noon each day, so my regular posts will probably be evening times)

 

Check in friday

 

Day 363/365

 

Hey Bro,

Most definitely! 4-6 is pleeenty enough alcohol to give you AR, especially if you are doing that on a regular basis. I've had plenty of nights just like you described!! Technically, 4-6 beers is considered an alcohol "binge." So, I would definitely do some research on the health effects of binge drinking.

The good news is, you may not have to quit alcohol altogether! If you can find a way to work yourself into a more moderate relationship with alcohol (that is, no more than 1-2 drinks in a day), you may be able to keep it in your life without negative health effects. That may require quitting for a while so your body can heal and adjust and then slowly working it back in later. Again, do some research online to learn about healthy alcohol habits.

All that aside, I will say in my personal experience that alcohol use has led to a lot of porn relapses. Even a couple drinks can lead to just enough judgement impairment to get me over the edge. Since you're on this thread, I'm assuming that quitting porn is also a goal of yours, so you may want to consider how the two habits interact with each other.

Anyway, I hope at least some of that is helpful! Great job asking the hard questions so that you can take care of yourself!

 

DUDE YOU ARE ALMOST THERE!!! Thanks for inspiring me. I'm gonna be in your shoes by this time next year!!

 

Day 3

 

Day 0/365

 

Day 49/365
It's an amazing journey so far.
I gave myself permission to masturbate on 7th, 14th, 21st, 28th date of every month.
But this month was really good. I masturbated on 7th June and after that, I did not masturbate at all. So, I am 21 days without masturbation so far.
If I were to see my 49 days of nofap, I only masturbated thrice.
The reason I have been successful so far is because I was not hard on myself. I allowed myself to masturbate but without looking at any graphical content like porn, pictures, etc. But once I understood that I was craving porn, not masturbation; my brain believed that masturbating isn't going to be that fun! So, I ditched masturbation as well. Although I feel my sexual energies building and I am getting some serious erections from women around me. But now I have to wait 9 more days even if I want to masturbate. So, it's going great so far.
I wish success to all my brothers on this site.
Stay porn free!

 

day 14...stay on it

 

78 days. Keeping focused on the 90-day mark for now.

 

Day 77