Addicted to Non-Nude Teen Girl Pictures

I would just stay focused. Its good that you have shared something that has burdened you. Now that you have this weight off your chest, I suggest you stick with nofap and just go cold turkey from any lewd images. Practice your self control with meditation. You have more power in syaing no than you think you do!

 

Hey J81,

Prefering teens girls is a sexual preference, not a psychiatric disorder (I checked in litterature ).
There is no shame to have about it !

We, as animals, are designed to procreate and renew our species. It seems normal to prefere young women on a biological point of view because they are more fertiles.

But on the ethical point of view... ?

I don't know. Not judging.

Anyway, the fact that it escalated to pedopornography is wrong on every aspects and is HERE a clear sign of a PA.

By rebooting, you will completely get rid of those ideas, don't worry

Stay brave bro

 

This is also something that is a struggle with as well, and I feel that it’s gotten to this level because the addition has caused me to go further and further into a hole of desire that I probably wouldn’t other wise take part in. Stay away from anything that could be remotely triggering, and keep your mind on your goal to recovery.

 

If with teen you mean 16-17 year old that IS biologically normal but morally incorrect. If they age IS younger then you need help.

 

Step 1 is to delete any pics you may have and avoid any sites you may have gone to before.

This may mean avoiding facebook and Instagram, or wherever these non-nude images come up.

Implement an automatic step when online that will distract you from the occasional urge. Such as coming on here to post something, or writing a journal entry. Better yet, do something outside off-line!

If you do lapse, and it is common when we are starting out, make a rule to avoid young teen images. If you must relapse, make it adult only.

When all is said and done, the best thing is to get a good amount of time clean so you know what your interests really are. One day at a time.

 

Mate, while I can't identify with this fetish, I believe that the lessons you will learn here will lead you to help.

You have been brave taking the first step. Now start a journal and get excited, you are about to reclaim your life!

 

At this very moment, I have an urge to watch p.

It's tough, I've had a few beers. That's a weakness and poly addiction.

But I know that while the present weaker version of me would like to watch porn, the future me will not be pleased.

I am choosing to overide the urge. I am using my higher brain function. It is not easy for me, but I have been hear a while.

I'll.let you know how I go.

 

You can get through this. Not judging on the drinking but that many not help when you’re in the state of wanting porn. At least for me it would for sure.

Just breath. You’ve got this.

 

Ty. Yeah I appreciate the sentiment. My point for op is that it takes some will power. I will deft get through this urge.

Was trying to provide insight to the required mindset.

 

Yes, this is a very scary thing to think about. But here's what I do every time I look at a teen girl and don't stop to think of her age right away.

Remind yourself what happens to guys like that when they get caught. Look up prison stories on google and read as many as you can to motivate yourself NOT to do it. I know fear tactics aren't completely healthy but neither is getting hot over girls who aren't old enough to understand adult males.

But on the same page, While you shouldn't get TOO deep into it, don't feel bad about being into girls in their mid to late teens, most of them have already developed sexually. Remember, back in our grandfathers' days it was appropriate for a 20-something man to marry a girl who might have been 15 or 16.

If you still feel bad, Disney princesses were all that age when they got married to their respective princes. And those are movies aimed at impressionable young audiences.

 

This is a tricky one to talk about because the law is black and white on what is right and wrong and that's the way laws have to be. But the fact is most male humans have a natural instinct to be attracted to the most fertile women and some of these women are going to be too young based on law, if you're escalating to girls who are clearly too young to be considered a women in anyway then I'd say that its a clear sign of prolonged porn use taking you to extremes, so stay the hell away from it.

I think its important not to hate yourself for those desires because self hate will take you in the wrong direction, practice acceptance instead. Some of these desires might be because of prolonged porn use (too young), accept where it has taken you and stop consuming porn. Some of those desires might be a natural fertility instinct (15,16,17), just make sure you don't act on those desires because you know it's the right thing to do, just like how you don't beat the shit out of someone when they piss you off, because you know its not the right thing to do. You just need to build more self control and direct your energy and attention in the right direction.

 

I think its the thrill of doing something you know you shouldn't that makes it exciting, that's why P sites are so full of taboo content, it can be small and fairly innocent to begin with but as you get desensitised that's when it can lead to the more extreme, it seems like that's how you've gotten there. I imagine that's how it works with the other fetishes people develop from PMO. First the curiosity about a taboo, then the thrill of doing something that's slightly wrong, next desensitisation and then escalation.

 

Wow I am astonished by your honesty and self awareness, both are gonna be very healthy for your progress. Whenever you feel tempted, remember that these girls are someone else’s daughters, also I’m not sure where you’re getting these pictures from, but if it’s pornographic in any form, realize that each view could be attributing to sex trafficking, and that you might as well be causing harm onto them yourself. And in your case, I feel like it would be important for you to have sex with a woman your age to condition this desire away.