Will God Forgive me

I am not, I preffer to bb happy by myself.
This is what christianity do. It says that you are a piece of shit and you need to believe in God so you piece of shit will be forgiven that you are a piece of shit.

 

There is misconception here ..
I am muslim and I believe in Jesus peace be upon him . We consider him one of the greatest of God’s messengers to mankind . In fact you can't be muslim without believing in Jesus peace be upon him. Jesus was born miraculously by the command of God . without father .

 

Like, I talk about kids tv show and I say that monkey said something
It doesnt mean I really mean monkeys talk
I just talk about tv show

 

Hmmm...

 

If we can't agree on the difference between a need and a want (even if the want is very strong), then I would say you are still in denial and there is not much possibility for forward progress.

If you read back your comment, you will see that even you switch between the word "want" and "need." Your comment would be more accurate if every instance of "need" was replaced with "want."

You want to be with a woman, but you do not need to be with one. I know, because it has been seven years and you are still alive. If you went that long without food or drink or air, you would be dead. That is the difference between a need and a want.

If you can live without sex, then you can learn to control the sexual impulse. Learning to do so are the steps we take along the road that leads out of PMO. If you're interested in starting the journey instead of just complaining about how the journey is not even possible, let me know!

 

Yes, the reason is to make you guys be strong.
Believing in fairy tales could be fine in dark ages.

 

Christianity treats weak character traits as virtuous and positive character traits as evil.
A religious, lazy, unemployed guy with 6 childrens, cowardly, not caring what he wears, not looking for improvement, jealous of other people succes will be viewed in Christian philosophy as better person than succesfull, wealthy, athletic, caring about his diet, hungry for knowledge, rich in soul one

Dont be surprised of something "cool" here, whole religion originated from social lowlands.

It makes strong people weak.
Generally, whole christianity says that everyone is bad just because they live and doesnt deserve anything until they start believing the Jew with beard. Then they are saved.
Its nonsense, I never really understand how people can believe in it.
God created people in a way that they are bad from the beginning. And those who are bad needs to go to hell. So he goes down to Earth as some regular Jew and die. To save people from how he created them the first place. Why? How? Because they can believe in that Jew and thanks to that faith they arent bad now, and as good ones they can go to heaven. Hallelujah.
Nonsense !

And of course there goes with it that morality of low people. Getting rich, being noble, intelligent, happy is evil, you are devil !
Similar to Lenin and communists.

 

Dont be needy, womens hate needy guys
Humans are social creatures but putting girls on the pedestal wont do the right thing.

How about getting yourself a professional help ?
Depresion is nothing funny to deal with it.

 

OK, this is a helpful clarification. So it is not sex that you are after primarily, it is companionship. You are lonely and wish not to be alone. And I agree that we were not made to be alone.

Two things:

1) You are a person of faith. Do you believe that all of your needs are met in Christ? Do you believe that he is sufficient, in and of himself, without the need for anything else to be added? Or are you still learning the truth of this? perhaps still learning to trust him and take him at his word when he says such things?

2) What does your relational world look like right now? I do not mean with women, but with friendships, family connections, etc. The need for companionship can be met in many ways, many of them non-sexual, and be very fulfilling. What steps are you proactively taking to be in community and not isolated?

 

1) Might be something to look into. It's in there, I promise. But more important is whether you believe it. (John 6)

2) Sounds like your health issues are paramount at the moment. Maybe you can focus on those while slowly building up a friend base here and in other online venues, in preparation for the day you can be more active socially.

Question: If you cannot even leave the house, how do you suppose you will get into a romantic relationship with a woman? It seems that such a thing is well off in the future, and that many other steps must be taken first. Rather than focus on the ultimate goal which cannot be attained presently, you can focus on a shorter term goal that will serve that longer term goal? As we say in recovery, one day at a time, taking the next step on the pathway to peace.

 

There were so many "Gods" and so many prophets that I think humanity should

If you throw away idea of life after death your current life become richer. Because you know there is no Heaven, so you focus on present moment very strongly.

 

God will forgive you by the blood of Jesus if God wants to. Now If God never gave you the Holy Spirit to justify you, most likley you would never even care about this subject or desire to please God. If God has chosen you, be convinced no one not even yourself can take you from him.

Westminister Confession of Faith.
Chapter X
Of Effectual Calling
I. All those whom God hath predestinated unto life, and those only, He is pleased, in
His appointed time, effectually to call,215 by His Word and Spirit,216 out of that state of sin
and death, in which they are by nature to grace and salvation, by Jesus Christ;217
enlightening their minds spiritually and savingly to understand the things of God,218
taking away their heart of stone, and giving unto them an heart of flesh;219 renewing their
wills, and, by His almighty power, determining them to that which is good,220 and
effectually drawing them to Jesus Christ:221 yet so, as they come most freely, being made
willing by His grace.

 

I understand that, but I believe that if it works for me and other people, it is valuable kind of philosophy.
I preffer to believe in wisdom, knowledge, in myself. Religion didnt have good impact on me. I believe that intellectual people should be free from those limiting old beliefs.

 

Well, lets dont make us different and focus on our biggest challenge. It is overcoming addiction and becoming best verison of yourself.