Is this normal? Is there a way to reverse tihs ? No longer interested in sex at 32. NOFAP 4ever

While I've never had sexual experiences, I have dated women who dated me for reasons all their own with no consideration for how it would effect me. As of this post, I am still in my twenties, but grew up with a precocious understanding of what was expected of me. I covered my bases, just not the the proverbial bases of the dating scene. I know where my parents were coming from now when they say the relationships today are not built on the same foundations from the past. It's a shame that privacy and intimacy are not an item as much as they used to be. I see that modern-day romance has a loose moral compass yet at the same time is more progressive as you mention.

It is a bit of a love paradox. You can do all the right things, but sometimes it feels like a chore rather than a natural and mutual feeling, especially when it is not reciprocated. Maybe your priorities have changed, which is not a bad thing. Finding someone who shares a similar scope as you do is how I would approach your current circumstance. If a woman does not see or appreciate your disinterest in sex for more important matters, then she may not be a worthy partner.

Double standards is a two-way street; work on your priorities long enough until it gains the right notice you are looking for.

 

Flatline?

 

Firstly, dont revert to p or m just to get yourself turned on. If your not horny then just leave it alone. Using porn will worsen your problem.

Some people have naturally low sex drives. This happens to women as well. In terms of a relationship, there are many many pleasurable things you can do to a woman without needing your penis.
I feel like in some way youve been damaged by your ex leaving you. Just remember there is nothing wrong with being single for a little while. Use it as a chance to improve your career or health. Then stop looking for women in the wrong places. Online dating is veey superficial and difficult to do well. Work on building personal relations with women in real life. People are way mpre open minded when they see the real human side of you. You dont get that online.

 

80% flatline.

 

See another doctor. This isn't normal for someone of 32 -- it's something that happens to some old men. You should have been referred to an endocrinologist to make sure that your hormone production is normal, and perhaps to try you on testosterone. Medications, drugs, and even alcohol are also possible culprits here -- SSRI's, for example, can turn your sex drive off, and the effect in some cases is permanent. So too with some other medications.

And it sure doesn't sound like a psychiatric issue to me. Gradual loss of interest in sex? C'mon.

 

Hes definitely in the flatline.