Best book to read on dating

When I made the decision to get into the dating world and approach women I’m utterly thankful that I read this book first before going on my little love mission.

Models by Mark Manson is one of the best books I’ve read on the subject. It focuses on how we should be interacting with women but I believe it could benefit anyone even if that isn’t their priority. The reason why is because Mark, throughout the book, encourages us guys to be honest and ourselves in our interactions with women. This facilitates honest connection.

He takes the time to bash the pick up artist community by telling us that we need to “act” a certain way to get women. His premise is for us to be honest about ourselves and not use cheap tactics to get women. I’m a man but I’d venture out to say that I’m sure women would recommend this dating book to men too. It’s one of my favorite books on self help and I can’t recommend it enough.

If you’re in the dating world or thinking of starting to date again soon I recommend this book to everyone if you have a little money to spend. I don’t know Mark Manson at all or am I one of his promoters or anything. I’m just a guy who thinks that everyone on nofap can benefit greatly from the knowledge contained in this book about authenticity.

Here’s a link if anyone is interested. Help yourself and your dating life by reading this instead of all of that dumb PUA stuff on youtube.
Models: Attract Women Through Honesty https://www.amazon.com/dp/1463750358/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_P5VyDbN9JYA9D

 

Yeah man just average hygiene and wear clothes that fit your body type goes a long way. If you want help I can try. I mean I’m no Chris Hemsworth but I don’t think I’m a goblin either.

 

Definitely, a great book on values.

 

I agree, I’d follow anyone who’s premise for advice is to be more genuine. Wish there were more books that emphasized honesty and genuine self expression as much as models did.

 

I’ve read daring greatly but not Radical Honest. I agree, I’ve read somewhere unsure whether it was Mark Manson or Brene Brown, pretty sure the former but they said the more we are open about our insecurities and are vulnerable with ourselves, ironically the more confident we are. Do you agree ?

 

I remember starting this article in my car but not finishing it, I wish I had gotten back to it. Thanks for sending this to me.

It really is paradoxical. The most confident guys are the guys that have allowed themselves to br “weak”. Guys that are good with women have been rejected so many times. The guys that aren’t confident are scared of ruining their “confidence” by risking this rejection. The guys that are great at shooting basketballs in the NBA are only good because they have missed so many times when they tried.

It’s this being able to face uncertainty like you said instead if protecting our fragile ego that allows a man to feel like he can handle shit and thus breed confidence. I will try to live my life in this way from now on. I see that my standards for everything in life greatly increase the more I do this. The things I’m willing to do and thus the satisfaction I get out of life increase because I HAVE increased.

I once had a conversation with this man who is your stereotypical people person and great with women. I asked him how he got so good and he told me it took A LOT of trial and error, he failed so many times (allowing himself to face the negatives) now look at him. God damn, I’m living a shallow, dull, boring life..because I am these things.

We all need to learn this.