[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Day 89!
No urges and no fantasies.
Day by day No PMO in monk mode is becoming a lifestyle for me. Abstinence is giving me joy and happiness.I'm not saying I'm totally free but I'm more free than before.
I don't know for how long I would be abstinent/celibate but for now I would continue on this path.

 

Dude!!! you are approaching the peak of this mountain! Enjoy the view as we applaud you .onwards and upwards!

 

Thank you! you are approaching too. Onwards and upwards!

 

Day 15/90!

 

Hey guys! I am new, so I want to clear up something.
1) Am I already participant a 90 days challenge or I should confirm something?
2) As I understand, my challenge success only in my head (and forum). Is it so? In other words, there’s no specific day counter for challenge, isn’t it?
3) Why should I leave a message here every single day while I’m in?
Thanks in advance.

 

Hi Andrey! Welcome.
If you are completely new to nofap it is worth to check out these 2 links :

https://nofap.com/rebooting/
https://nofap.com/porn-addiction/

As for your questions :
1 you are free to join no need to confirm anything.
2 you can set up a day counter on this forum (click on menu and then update day counter.) you can also use an additional app for this. ( I use quitzilla) but no there is not an specific day counter for this challenge. That's why
3 it is a good idea to check in everyday. It keeps you up to date to how far you are in your streak as well as keeps you accountable. Also you can share your journey here with us and you can also help others on their journey. Good luck!

 

Thanks a lot! I’ve read Get Starting Manual, but also thanks for the good links.

 

13
Cursed number & tough day
But l"m the master of torture
Even if my brain burnt-out
I WILL SURVIVE
BUT MORE CIGARETTES PER DAY

 

The same also my underwear
But i was embarrassed to say that

 

Today i"ll push it to a new level
My family is going out & i"ll be home alone
Ur support is needed guys

 

Just post here what exactly you need, maybe I can help you. By the way, remember, that if you feel you need sleep just go to rest. Cause I remember how I have relapsed just because of I hadn’t had enough sleep. So you can avoid my mistakes.

 

I guess im n"t ready to stay alone
Better to hang out
Specially i've passed flatline & l"m like zombie now

 

Starting over. Today is day 1 of 90.

 

Fuck it. I Relapsed.

 

Started Challenges Jan 25, 2019
Relapsed 7/215 Days
Longest streak 67 days
Current Challenge 20/90 no PM
Day 65 of weight training
Day 15 - reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar
- feeling crap after another verbal fight with the wife last night which screwed up my sleep
- arguing with her can often be a trigger but not this time
- I need to be successful in the challenge this time as I am tired of counting and want to move into lifestyle mode next
- your brother in this struggle

 

5 days no PMO
0 days less sugar.
5 days no alcohol. 1 14 day and one 12 day streak.
57 days no posts on Facebook.
Prayed my chaplet of Divine Mercy.
Prayed my litanies.
Talks with God

Wanting to get excited for my 5 days. Everytime I do I get tempted. I am not sure why. I don't need to know why. Just knowing is good I guess. I think it is that sense of control it gives me. I don't think that sense is good for me. I have been so desperate to stop. I find being thankful for the 5 days makes the idea of acting out go away. Praise God. No praise of me. Just God.

Was out ubering last night. I hear people talk about women being attracted to them with NoFap. I am not sure if it is just by chance that the girls I picked up were different but they were flirting with me.Asking me relationship questions. Telling me that they were happy now that they had met me. Already? Could also be how awesome I was doing yesterday. I was feeling on top of the world. I have never felt as confident about my life in general ever. Could be amixture of the two.

I am seeing how prideful Ihave been for the last fewyears. I need to keep praying for humility. I am veryprideful.

 

Wonderful! Good to hear as it gives me hope.

 

Day 4

 

Day 1
Somehow I cant even say if the first day felt super long or went over quickly - maybe both.
I am realizing more everyday what an incredible challenge and major journey this is for many out there, somehow I always felt alone in my struggle.
The people here are amazing and reading your stories gives me hope.

 

Stay strong man! We are all with you. Keep going.