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Maturbation vs real sex vs Porn

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  1. Sep 11, 2019 #1
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    I need to ask this, but can you explain to me. Is their a difference between masturbation, real sex, and watching porn. What makes having real sex with a woman, like what God wants us to do feel more pleasurable and enjoyable than masturbating or watching porn?
     
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  2. Sep 11, 2019 #2
    Tao Jones

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    Sex is not primarily about pleasure; it is about connection. In PMO, you take the pleasure of the experience and divorce it from any real human connection. Sex was never intended to be experienced in this way. It breaks the intended design. Thus, all sorts of bad things happen as a result.

    Sex belongs in the confines of a committed "until death do us part" relationship with one other person. Outside of that context, sex leads necessarily and inevitably to pain and hurt for all involved.
     
    Tao Jones, Sep 11, 2019
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  3. Sep 11, 2019 #3
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    lol, you had me thinking about something, with all this hooking up and shacking together trends going on in the world right now, I can see why PMO with people keeps getting bigger and worse. But you are right, and I think thats why it's hard for me to let the pleasure part go, because im addicted to the feelings that I get from it which makes me more into an introvert.
     
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  4. Sep 11, 2019 #4
    Tao Jones

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    It is a very great tragedy when the mechanism God designed to draw us into oneness with another human being ends up being the very thing that keeps us unable to ever do so. Sex is an incredibly powerful force. The teen years are when we are to learn self-control, but this often goes neglected. Alas!
     
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  5. Sep 11, 2019 #5
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    You know im glad you mentioned about teens years. Cause as an adolescent at 19 years old, it feels like im being pressured by society in all kinds of different directions. Especially things we watch or happen to see on our computers and TVs have some sort of improper sexual sin that is always the forefront of everything. Then society is pushing us 20yr olds in all kinds of unnatural and rigged up situations that could make us struggle or end up ruining or lives. Besides we only live once on this earth, and i know its either heaven or hell, so im trying to put my life back on the right track but its hard.
     
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  6. Sep 11, 2019 #6
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    Everything worth doing is hard. But very, very good! Welcome to the Way of the disciple: There is no other path which leads to Life! :)
     
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  7. Sep 11, 2019 #7
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    thxs:)
     
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  8. Sep 17, 2019 #8
    vxlccm

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    You're on the right track. Keep thinking like that. Feeling your way with the eye of faith will not lead you astray, but through narrow gate.
     
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