Help My Female Neighbor Is Giving Me Triggers!

Part 1

I recently moved in to a new apartment. Ready for a new fresh start.

I live next of a girl about the same age as me. I said hi to her once but never introduced myself. I'm quite introvert and have a bad overall experience with neighbors in general.

So i'm living in this new apartment for a couple of months now. After a couple of months this girl next to suddenly started STOMPING over the hallway's floor like a crazy angry elephant.

She's doing it EVERY freaking day now... We are with 8 neighbors living on the same floor, we all use the same hallway, and she's the only one doing this.

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Part 2 This started after i brought some girls at my place over the course of several weekends. I'm not sure if she noticed it or not but we are basically sharing the same terrace with a high separation in the middle.

You can't see through it but you can take a peek if you go higher. And since i don't have any curtains hanging in my bedroom she can look in my bedroom if she really wants to.

I have to admit that she liked me on Tinder after i moved in but i didn't like her back.

So a couple of weeks after she suddenly started locking her door and stomping over the hallway's floor in a angry way. When i say stomping i really mean it! Stomping in a extra loud way.

Anyway i didn't really give much attention to her stomping until now. She's doing it now for almost 2 months! Is this girl mad? crazy? Stomping like that every single day!

She wants revenge IMHO. Hoping she might get a reaction out of me one day. That i would open my door and tell her to stop doing what she's doing. Only so she can continue doing it. I'm not really into that and i want to be smarter than her.

I really don't want to give it attention but this sound is a getting a little bit out of hand. She's literally stomping and locking her door extra loud to trigger people.

EVERY SINGLE DAY when she leaves or comes back.

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Part 3

What's so funny is that she was not doing this before.

So i'm pretty sure she's doing this suddenly on purpose.

I don't want to confront her about it honestly because i know this will turn in a neighbor hating relationship.

I'm basically having no control over this and realize i'm in a position of being a victim.

She's giving me sexual triggering thoughts and working on my nerves as well.

What can i do except moving out?

 

I don't really want to talk to her about it. This is a typical neighbor discussion that i want to avoid. It starts with asking to stop something and ends up with living in a frustrating neighbor hating relationship. I'm basically introvert and have overall a bad experience with neighbors as well.

 

LOL don't you get it? I was ignoring it at first! She's doing this every single day for 1 month already now. Every single day!!! Every single weekend!! It's driving me crazy!! Of course it is; it's only normal after hearing always the same stomping knowing it's her doing it. We live in a brand new apartment and she's the only one doing this over the course of 8 neighbors living on the same floor... I'm pretty sure she's doing this on purpose... So disrespectful for people sleeping during the day or when we have guests around so.

 

1. NO i don't but since she started doing it after i brought girls over it's suspicious why she's doing so loud stomping like she's angry or seeking for attention all of sudden.

2. Yes but they are limits. This is overly loud on purpose. That's really extra loud stomping!!

3. Agree but you should be so loud disrespecting you neighbors with overly loud stomping nobody does this except her. I lived in apartments for quite some time now.

4. I already did.

5. I already did. Doesn't help. The walls are literally trembling of the sound. My floor inside of my apartment is even trembling of her stomping.

THIS IS SO OVER THE TOP STOMPING ON PURPOSE!!!

 

That is what i'm trying to do my brother! She's pulling me out of my focus every single time!

 

That's what i did first and i think she noticed that i ignored her and now she just keeps doing it every single day!!!!!

 

Around 27. Funny thing is she liked me on tinder but i didn't like her back.

 

Come one man really? You're really throwing this non-sense standard preach on me like i wouldn't know all this stuff already.

YOu really think i'm dumb or never lived in apartments do you? I know when people are playing games and when they are not. Trust me.

Like i said in my earlier posts read completely and try to understand. This didn't start from last week or yesterday. Read the details before throwing some basic tantra's.

 

I might have been in the beginning. Before i even saw her on tinder. After the tinder thing i was suddenly not attracted to her anymore.

And now that she's behaving like this i'm surely less attracted to her. But i don't know how she does it to frustrate me and give me sexual triggers with her stomping.