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I have discovered the biggest reasons for premature ejaculation (and super simple fix)

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Deleted Account, Jun 22, 2017.

  1. Osamiom

    Osamiom New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. Very useful information. Its nice to be able to talk with people that have the same problem. Will update soon

    Edit. Just to add some info for the bro science. I sometimes consume extasy pills at partys. Sometimes its actually very hard to start peeing after you take those pills. Also i can have sex for hours, and sometimes i even cant cum. I dont know why but im sure there is a correlation
     
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  2. eswara2

    eswara2 New Fapstronaut

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    PLZ SAVE MY LIFE BROTHERS

    How to reduce the frequency of wet dreams?
    Relaxing the bc muscles and doing kegel for pc muscles is enough ? Doing kegel for pc muscles have any side effects ?
     
  3. Doupleastronaut

    Doupleastronaut Fapstronaut

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    send me a message in private and explain to you
     
  4. 3lander

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    Hey Guys,

    Been lurking at this thread a long time.
    I can sign up at this PE problem and my background is similar to several described earlier in this thread.

    I started my kegel / reverse kegel with the app stamena on appstore..
    Sadly I trained the BC muscle before reading this thread.
    Nowdays I practise Real PC when the app says do kegel and RK when it says RK.

    I would like to get som help how to stop the flow of pee by flexing the real PC.
    My BC kicks in when I try..

    So thankful for all the posts before this one!
     
  5. My perineum is too sensitive to do any kind of excerises, or try to control it. It literally feels like a giant sperm clogged vein behind my nuts. One false move and it's game over

    What's worked for me is you have to get your mind around arousal. If the mind gets ahead of the body then it misfires. Rapidly, slow it down :)
     
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  6. Doupleastronaut

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    this thread is wrong, you have to train both the bc muscles and the pc muscles. you can also train them together. reverse kegels are very important. remember to do reverse kegel for the bc muscles and reverse kegels for the pc muscles. I give you some advice: most likely your muscles are doing well and you don't need to train them. the problem is in your brain, shake and try to last as long as possible (focus on the sensations and don't use your imagination!)
     
  7. 3lander

    3lander Fapstronaut

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    Are you sure this thread is wrong?

    The BC muscle seems to spasm/be very tense when having a erection.
    And reverse kegel calms it down.

    By doing BC exercise, i will cause more harm then good? No?
     
  8. annacarolinee27

    annacarolinee27 New Fapstronaut

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    So Im a girl who's boyfriend of several years has had PE since he can remember... I wanted to see what others were sharing about it and how to deal with it and I think that its true that for some there might me an easy fix with exercises or such, but for some guys like my bf who has dealt with it for a long time, its not so easy.. He was always a bit overwhelmed by it and worried he couldn't always satisfy me enough. I love him and his company and I didn't always worry about this, but we both wanted to see if there was something out there that could help ease the situation bc he would feel so frustrated sometimes, and that would make us be a little down with each other.. I mostly just wanted him to not be overwhelmed by it. So we did online research and came across this delay spray called Promescent which did have tons of good reviews, so we didn't feel like it was fake or anything since there's so much stuff out there. After we started using it he went from lasting 5 min to 15, and his confidence boosted so much, I was so happy just to see him relaxed, finally. We still use it every other time and it still works great, for him, it has made a big difference. Sometimes a little help is ok!
     
  9. 3lander

    3lander Fapstronaut

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    Well, I have tried delay spray, my wife is very sensitive and can detect it even through a condom. And then the sex is done. She gets a burning feeling.

    I’m gonna edge myself with a fake vagina for a couple of weeks combined with reverse bc + pc.

    And if that fails I’m just gonna try not to think about it.
    My wife is kind of un-sexual. If i dont mention it we could go months without.
    But that dosnt work on a me.
    Only thing is - My mind tells me because of PE thats why she dont want to have sex once ot every other week like I want.

    Ok done rambling for now.
    I will wright my progress in a few months here.
    If anyone have any tips or tricks please do :)
     
  10. Doupleastronaut

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    masturbate yourself slowly and delay the asthma for as long as possible (30 min of masturbation)
     
  11. 3lander

    3lander Fapstronaut

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    Thanks
     
  12. Doupleastronaut

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    Delay the orgasm*
    Sorry
     
  13. 3lander

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    Qick update,

    6 days and 7 sessions with my fake (called fakey below) friend so far.
    The timer has been set to 30 minutes och I’ve got rainmusic on spotify while at it.
    1st: Tried fakey for 30 minutes failed in 3,5 minutes with lots of stops! So sensitive!

    2nd: Tried for 30 minutes but blew it around 12 minutes.

    3rd: 30 minutes with fakey and regular. Regular (hand) goes easier and better control. With lots of stops.

    4th: tried 30 minutes failed with 17 minutes left, got too exited and fakey gives lots of feeling on the way out, just as the real deal.

    5th: 30 minutes with fakey, worked well.

    6th: Got to clit wife before she left for work trip, then managed 30 mins in and out of fakey, 17 mins in. Though got exited in the shower and orgasmed in the shower after timer.. Fail

    7th: 30 minutes with fakey, most of the time inside and with 1-2sec in and out. Lets say 22 sec inside. Good one.

    History: Speed-jerked to porn, so i wouldent get caught..

    Lession: Got to know my genital a lot more with longer sessions.

    Insight: Breathing and staying calm does a lot for me. Relaxing all the muscles down there by thinking of it and checking with RK frome time to time.
    Using a fake vag. simulates quiete well.
    Lube is important, as friction gets me going.

    Challange:
    Of course real sex, it’s one thing staying calm with fakey.
    Also i would like to get better at going down from 9 to 6 with slower rise back to 9.

    Going to continue exercise 9 days till wifes period is over before I might get to test in real combat. ;)

    Btw, my goal when going at it for 30 minutes is to NOT ejac. I feel that my focus might be on orgasm if I finish with ejac. What is correct?
     
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  14. Doupleastronaut

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    very good you are learning how your body works! your erections always last longer and you don't have PE, keep it up! here on nofap many people think that masturbation is wrong, masturbation heals those who use porn! help me spread this! I do orgasm, I don't think there is any difference
     
  15. Doupleastronaut

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    Write your story in my trhead https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/i-masturbate-to-cure-pied.248719/
     
  16. pancakesforeveryone

    pancakesforeveryone New Fapstronaut

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    Hello
    Ive read all pages of this thread and know a lot about PE BC PC, i can locate my PC muscle and BC i can seperate them as i am calm, when aroused i cannot simply seperate them and the problem is that when im aroused or try having sex my BC muscle twitch alot. And for that i understand the prostate is being massaged the results are quick finish if u get what i mean. And i would like to know how to stop or calm the twitching because of the PE im having trouble with sex. Cannot last longer than 20s. Thats so embarrasing but im trying to calm myself down during sex, controlling breathing, relaxing, but it doesnt help, furtherduo im doing the PC muscle exercises tho i dont know if its helping because i am doing it for only a week, so my question is how to train yourself to stop the BC muscle twitching. Thanks im waiting for your replays.
     
  17. 3lander

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    Hey!

    I can only tell you my experience so far.
    I dont know your story apart from above, still here goes:

    * Quit porn - quick masturbation and porn got you here.

    * Masturbate for long periods of time - 10 to 30 mins. Try listening to rain-sounds on spotyfi - workes for me. And dont cum in the end. Otherwise that becomes the goal for the brain.

    * I bought a fake vagina since my wife wont help me with start and stop i figured - close sensation enough. And masturbate acording to above.

    * Work out - cardio 1 hour twice a week and muscles aswell.

    * Control breathing most importantly during sex but ofc during masturbation - strongest help for PE.

    * I use reverse kegel to check if BC is too tight and by revese kegel i kind of relex the area.

    * last tip which I’m going to apply to myself is: - Dont think about sex - This is it! Dont gloryfi it. (Just mentaly to calm down)

    My only, so far, working slowdown move during sex/masturbation is a strong 20 sec kegel hold/squeese + calm breathing during.
    Gets me down from 9,5 to 7.
    Sadly it goes pretty quick to 9,5 again.

    Ps. Personally I do not like the sex-toys stuff and would like myself and others to stay away. But in this case it’s for making the penis less sensitive and used to beeing inside. And not to make you cum.
     
  18. Louis Givenchy

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    After doing hardmode for ~50 days and involuntarily abstaining from sex for 5 months, my stamina surprised me. Mind you I also used a condom which helped tremendously but since NoFap, my stamina is no longer something I even worry about. I'm not doing marathons yet but I know I can go for a healthy streak
     
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  19. MagicN9

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    Guys, here is the cure. I had the problem myself, not anymore.

    Start drinking 2 tablespoons of EXTRA VIRGIN OLIVE OIL (It has to be extra virgin!), and you will feel so much better. From lasting around 15-30 seconds, I can do 4+ minutes!

    The problem possibly lays in high histamine - low serotonin. Olive oil raises the enzyme diamine oxidase which breaks histamine down and thus helps with all of this. Try researching it yourself, but after 1 month of drinking olive oil I feel so much better! Hopefully this will help someone!
     
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  20. MagicN9

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    I forgot to write that you drink it first thing in the morning on an empty stomach. That's how I am doing it. It would probably help anyway you do it, but I think this may be the right way. I drink one tall glass of water first and after about 5 minutes I take 2 tablespoons of Extra virgin olive oil followed with 2 tablespoons of squeezed lemon juice. That's it!
     

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