Accountability for All

I have a serious question.

Does anyone know anything about if your underwear is too loose and your thing is flapping around in there? I (unintentionally) have been feeling small amounts of pleasure from it. I don’t want to, but all my underwear is loose.

 

Hey corylife,

I was the first to respond in this thread. I want to say hello again. How are you? Regardless of your streak, I want to hear from you.

 

I know this too. But it doesn't really get better with tighter underwear. You still feel friction between "it" and the jeans.
The sensation comes from increased sensitivity.

 

Boxer briefs do not give me a problem. Just do not buy silk ones. lol.

 

Day 16..Sorry didn't get the change to update..
Feeling great with my new life!..
Lets keep our selves busy..

 

I am now day 3 and so tempted to relapse. Any advice?

 

Hold on in there for all you got!

if you have to go for a run now, or even just do breathing exercises.

just distract yourself.

do whatever you can to stay away.

 

I just edged for about 2 and a half hours.

I didn’t O but I definitely PM’d

I don’t feel that bad though compared to how I would feel after releasing all of the way, I had precum come out of me, but that’s about it. I never really felt anything bad from the release of precum.

Do you guys think I should release all of the way? Or keep going.

I really don’t want to relapse.

Let me know what you think.

 

@Pathofsuccess_1 When I first joined NoFap, I thought "No porn, Masturbation, Orgasm" meant that porn and masturbation were OK as long as I didn't orgasm. Sounds like you interpret it the same way.

But my current understanding is that it means no porn and no masturbation and no orgasm. With that understanding, you've already broken your commitment, and you should reset your counter.

I've read discussions that say there is a difference between a "reset" (a broken commitment and a reset counter) and a "relapse" (going totally off the rails). Even under the second, more strict understanding, you have a "reset" and not a "relapse".

I suggest you clarify your thinking about what you want to commit to. Perhaps you really only want to commit to "No Orgasm". That's OK too (though I don't recommend it - see below).

About edging. I found the Your Brain on Porn article against edging very persuasive. It says that edging for hours is much worse than just getting it done quickly to completion. For myself, I haven't truly sworn off porn (yet) but I I'm off edging forever.

Lemme know if you want me to look up that article.

 

Hello, I felt very bad, this week I had 3 relapses, I was about to give up, this sucks, but here I am again and I hope to achieve it, it is my first day after the relapse. It all started a few years ago at school, I am a person who does not talk much and prefers to be alone, but the boys at my school saw him weird, they beat me insulted me, the girls told me it was weird, that's how it was for a few years , time passed and some boys began to see P and this caused everyone to see, I did not see, my family is Christian and that is why they told me that it was not right, my classmates did not think alike, they thought that because they did not see P I was not enough man, one day they grabbed me between 3 and forced me to see if they refused to beat me, so this began in the following years I saw more and more, I made me forget what was happening, in school I had a very bad time in Special in sports where I could not coordinate or play as a team, I also had difficulty expressing myself well. I set out to talk more at the university and I succeeded, but not much, the worst part is that PMO accompanied me to the university, from so much PMO my vision clouded and my memory worsened, I could not concentrate, I did not feel attraction to the girls , it hurt me down there, at first I didn't feel bad about doing it, but after everything changed I felt very bad, I tried to quit, but apart from feeling impulses it was like a habit and that made me come back, I looked in many pages how to leave it and quora recommended nofap, so I came here, a few months ago I met a girl online she is a very good person, we fall in love and we are boyfriends, when I get away I leave her and that brings us problems is not fair to her. I want to achieve it, to feel proud of me, so that I can be fine with my girlfriend, so as not to waste my time. I will also not have to erase the history, I will not have to feel bad, I will not have that bad smell, I will not have pains, my memory will also improve my concentration. I hope to achieve this time God help us, thank you guys keep up with your goals you can

 

Felt some urges today. Touched myself for a few seconds but did not enjoy it and stopped. Did not have a craving for porn. Overall I felt good with myself today. Kept thinking my brothers and sisters are counting on me. We got this together

 

You have plenty of good reasons for doing NoFap. That's really important. Just stay with it. The only way to fail is to give up completely.

 

Uughh I literally started edging to good looking bodies(mens) as a coping mechanism.

I looked but didn't physically M because I can only do that prone, and 8 years of prone masturbation I think probably destroyed my dick. Speaking of which how long does it take to recover from prone masturbation? Or is all the damage I've done to my dick

Giving up this addiction is way tougher than imagined. It took 6 months just to get the fat fetish under control and I had this as far back as 5.

 

It’s ok man, we all mess up some times. But we have to get right back on track to achieve our success and there is no other option but success!

I too edged for 3 hours and finally just O’d.

I hate relapsing. But I know I have to keep trying and I’ll get to where I want to be, a lifetime without pmo.

Starting this again right now and I’m never giving up!

I know it’s easier said than done but I know I’ll get it. Believe in yourselves too! You can achieve anything without pmo.

 

Bad news.... I finally physically relapsed after 6 months. It was not worth it.

 

Well do better this time. We got this.

 

So the pieces of the puzzle are finally coming together. That relapse showed me i need to get my ass in gear. Unfortunately I had really watery semen that time.

• PMO damages androgen receptors, but at the same time it also lowers your actual test levels due to the loss of important vitamins and minerals, notably dietary fats and zinc. These are crucial for testosterone.
• It definitely causes acne breakouts and makes them much much worse than normal.
• I need to stop fantasizing about good looking bodies and work my ass off.

Here's a great quote from Morty Jr about masturbation:

"I don't wanna masturbate, I wanna conquer the planet!"

 

Relapsed several times this weekend, but here I am again. New week, new start. I hope I can finally achieve a longer streak again.

 

OP, you still there?