I've gay thoughts right now and I need your help

Stop now!

 

Why is this an issue?

 

Porn escalation is something common among porn addicts... good streak of no PMO will help for sure !

 

There used to be a whole section of explanations on the main NoFap site, but they have disappeared. I can't find them now.

Those sections explained how you can get addicted to porn that represents things that you normally would hate — gay porn for straight people, violent porn for peace-lovers, etc.

Your attraction to gay porn is a consequence of your addiction. Do a 90-day hard reboot, and you should find that those obsessions fall away, if not entirely, then at least mostly. The longer you take on a reboot, the better it gets. Stay at it long enough, and those urges will be completely gone, and you'll wonder how you ever felt that way!

You're only 5 days in, and so you might find that the urges get more intense before they start to fall away. Be strong! You can heal. Be patient! It takes time.

 

I never thought of it that way. But when I think about it, I’m more interested in domination and stuff like that in porn but in real life I hate this. I’m not submissive but I hate forcing people and respect is really important for me.

Seeing the porn version of me would actually be scary. I don’t want to meet that guy. Let it burn.

 

I had gay fantasies after the 1st year of hard mode. Just for a while then it passed. Can I ask you if you are still PMOing or you are in reboot?

 

Hi, maybe you are gay and oppressed these thoughts until now? I can calm you down, dont worry, thats ok to be gay!

 

Hard. Not impossible.
But, one step at a time.

• Start with a 90-day hard reboot.
• Swear off all porn, forever.
• Even if you resume occasional masturbation after your 90-day reboot, don't watch porn. You will continue to heal.