"How to seduce a girl" type stuff. My opinion.

Totally agree with you on that. I will add that those sites can help you « hooking up » but doesn’t help in building a long lasting relationship.

 

If a girl sleeps with you it’s because you brought something to the table that she wanted. I’ve many of the women I met tell me they knew I was trying to get laid and the rest were probably thinking it. Much more honest than playing the long game just so you can get mediocre sex eventually.

 

I told you there are no tricks. You just make a move and see how they respond

 

You can seduce women by being genuine and not lying. Some dating coaches help with that, so I don't see the problem.

If you mean videos that tell people how to trick women into bed, then I agree, it's pretty weak. I don't know what tutorials you're watching and reading.

 

How do you trick women into bed anyway? They always seem to know what I’m trying to do to the point where I actually thought I was a good communicator for a while.

 

Online articles are mostly falsehood and even stupid in some ways...
something like : `stealth attraction technique` (CIA proofed method)

its hard to tell and had a specific formula in head that works on everyone because it wont!
girls are different from girl to girl,
some of them came to your place on first day, some others hate when guys putting up about sex ,

but the main key,
is growing trust and going slowly...

you should know sex is not things getting start with, is something that things will end with it ,
I mean, when you try to convince a girl to sleep with you , the more you try , more you getting far from having sex!
but some of them are exact opposite, you should mention sex directly to them,...
but mainly
its starts with cuddles and soft touchs , then goes to kisses , then undressing and, you find your self ended up having a great sex...

have a deep conversation is a very good idea,
and tell her about sex in person,not chat or text or anything like that


also don't try to put up sex directly in your conversations,tell her a dirty joke and see her reaction ,if she gets turned on you are doing good

according to ancient texts, men are water and woman are earth
they turn on more and have an deep desire on existential subjects like sex,birth,&..anything down to earth so to speak
if.... you don't mention it directly...and/or mention it in a right time,

this is my experience ,

+you should proof yourself to her that you are the `One` , you are different , you care about her ,
and try this things mostly on night time, I mean after 9 o clock in the night,
if she can sleep over in your place, it would be better, try cooking together, watching movies together , and bit by bit you two get closer together, both in verbal
and physical manner, and done, a great sex