Healty masturbating

First off, good on you for starting the journey! Mad respect! As far as any advice goes, I would remove ALL aspects of pornography from your life. If you want to truly go all in on the "experiment," then you have to remove all artificial stimuli. The next thing that I would do it to keep a journal of your progress or maybe even just mentally note how things are going in order to not get discouraged. Also, (as you probably already know) stopping porn is one of the most difficult things that a man can do, especially when you are biologically craving it. Some helpful tips to stopping are to take cold showers and to do push-ups whenever you are feeling the urge. It might seem extreme, but what this accomplishes is that it forces the body to be uncomfortable. If you have any more questions or wish to look for accountability, this website is a great place to do so.

 

Most people here are addicted to porn. It's extremely difficult not to watch it even when we don't want to. So don't be surprised there will be a lot of people with 0-1-2 days etc. In addition, the counter doesn't mean much because everybody has their own goals. For example my counter shows 70+ days no PMO but I did not masturbate in the last 110 days. And I'll reset it back to 0 this weekend because I will have sex (although not watch porn or masturbate).

You said you used to watch porn and had an account on Pornhub. When exactly did you stop watching porn? Because if you stopped 8 days ago, it might be too soon to call quitting porn a done thing. You might actually be addicted to it. 8 days is nothing. I hope you're not addicted though.

What do you call "healthy masturbation"? How do you define?

For me personally I bought a Japanese sex toy (vagina replica) and it's going to be my last resort in case I really want to masturbate. I don't want to use my hand ever again.

 

Ok I gotcha. Well congratulations for quitting porn (addict or not). This industry is no good. Looks like you got out of it before escalating. Good for you.

Well man only you can know what healthy is for you. Try once a week maybe. Or once every two weeks.

 

Okay complete honesty bro, no. I had a pretty bad relapse over the course of the past few days and I am not in a good mental space just because of some other life stuff going on. I'm not proud, but I'm trying to "fail forward" if that makes sense.

 

Healthy masturbation is fapping without porn and fantasy and being conscious of what you're doing. It works and is not addictive because it gets you out of the trance porn puts you in.

 

You can just set the counter to no P and M?

 

There is no such thing as healthy masturbation. Jerking off is the worst as it is a homosexual act.

 

Yea I can. I don't yet know what I'll do. Probably I will set it on no PM.

 

That is a bit rich coming from you! The guy that recommends we fuck a fleshlight and watch homosexual (lesbian) porn.

 

You shoud read the posts again if you dont get them the first time. I said solo women and i said humping a fleshlight should be done just for a while to rewire the bad habit of jerking off.

Again, if you lack reading comprehension better refrain from posting.