HOW could ANY of us watch porn EVER again after seeing this...

I'm far from being a white knight. I couldn't care less if she was a dude. It's the principle that bothers me.

Sure she might be a temptation for some guys who are on the edge , but not everyone is meant to succeed. Facing temptation and resisting it is the real test.

In any case , you can't just "cast her out" simply because she doesn't believe / follow you're cause.
Again , language has nothing to do with it. It's the principle.

 

"not everyone is meant to succed"???? What the.... This place has one and only purpose to help everyone who need help not to temp people and test their power of will.
Everyone who want to feel tempted can just go to any other place. This place is like oasis in desert and it should stay clean and be cherished.
If you want to hear positive porn stories, you got X porn forums out there.
This has nothing to do with principle, we should help our brothers who need help and try not to shove them a "pornstar" in face to see how strong they are.
Posting what she(?) does completely ruins purpose of this place.

 

I'm not here to "tempt" men into anything - relapsing or otherwise. I joined this forum because I was curious, and I responded to this thread because everyone's speaking about porn, and figured my input as an actual performer may be valuable to the discussion. I don't see why it's fine for everyone else to speak about porn, but the moment someone who has first-hand experience actually working in the industry speaks about it, shit hits the fan. It's either okay to speak about porn here, or it's not. It's not like I'm rubbing triggers in your face with images, or even just mentioning anything of a graphic sexual nature. I'm just joining a discussion which was already taking place here.

I responded to *one* poster who seemed to be making it clear he wanted to relapse. What he does with my response is not my responsibility. He could even take my response as an opportunity to strengthen what he wants to do, relapse or not. I have no issue with people doing what they want their own bodies - whether they want to partake in nofap or not - but I just don't think it's right for someone to be told what to do against their own wishes. If people disagree with me on that, absolutely fair enough, you don't have to listen to me.

 

You directly told to the man to relapse! That is not what we do here. Everyone who comes here realizes that he/she want change. We do not tell people here to jerk, actually quite opposite! That is purpose of this forum and not some "do what ever feels good" philosophy, even if it's for a 10 seconds and afterwards you feel like crap.
You do not go to rehab telling people to take a quick fix. You do not go to rehab and telling stories how dealers and mobsters make allot of money and that's why drug is so great! Simple as that. Internet is a huge place and if you want to spread your junk mind-set go for it, this is not place for you!

 

Lol, "junk" mind-set - no need to get your panties in a twist. The funny thing I'm finding with this, is out of all the people who took issue with my response, not ONE of them is the dude himself. Maybe at this point we should move on with our lives...

 

He made response to the rest of us, thanking us for giving him support not to relapse and that makes it clear why is he here. He simply did not replied to you because he was not secure with himself and he was tempted. Last thing he needed is you telling him to beat the monkey!
And you are right, you should move on, away from this forum!
You do with your body what ever you like and do what ever you want but do not come here spreading bullshit. Most of us tried that and decided that it's bad for us.

 

Oh my god, can you really not let this go?

At least get back on topic of this thread.

 

No i can not, because you are being malicious. Look i do not know your life story (i am not even sure that you are not just being troll) but most of porn performers (i do not even know how to call that, essentially it is prostitution) are from ruined families who only got "compassion" from their pimps (agents). There is allot human trafficking behind it too. Your "positive" story is not a rule it is rather exception. Not to mention circulating STD's such as herpes, chlamydia, HIV and other sexual transmissive infections. And on the screen everything is great, of better say perfect. It is false reality and worthless substitution for real partner and why not love! You jack off in front computer monitor and afterwards you lay in bed depressed and ashamed. If you want to show your vagina to the world, go for it, we are powerless to stop that "industry" but we certainly can ignore it and deflate demand at least for a small chunk.
We on this forum are aware that we are part of the problem because we create/created demand for certain type of material and now we want to change. That's why we do not need you here to tell us "positive" things from porn "industry".
This place has different purpose.

 

How am I being malicious?

Where are you getting this from? Do YOU have any first-hand experience in the industry yourself? Or are you, like most people, selectively plucking your information from certain sources? Having said that, it isn't hard to be someone who isn't working in the industry and think of porn as being nothing but bad. Media tabloids and journalists love a good sob story. "Porn Star Had A Great Day On Scene! / Enjoys Job!" doesn't tend to make a good headline... at least not for mainsteam media, despite those stories existing.

This industry is so, SO massive, there are thousands upon thousands of industries operating within the porn industry it's impossible to make such claims unless you're quoting specific studios, specific agencies, specific businesses.

People need to stop thinking of "the porn industry" as being this one, big company which is either good or bad. Within the industry, there are businesses that are ran terribly, there are business that are ran absolutely spectacularly well, and everything inbetween.
I'm also seeing more and more women who were former perfomers start opening their own studios, their own companies, becoming producers, site owners, directors, etc. Do you think they too are all big bad "pimps" who don't care less about the actors and actresses working for them? Some of the most incredible, intelligent, fascinating, and lovely people I've ever met come from the people I've met in this industry.

Again, this depends on which business you're speaking about. You cannot say "in general", because every business is ran differently.

You lay in bed depressed and ashamed because you see it as "wrong".
And who is saying porn is a substitute for love? Plenty of couples get off together viewing porn and enjoy a fulfilling sexual relationship.

You partake in what you wish. That is your right, absolutely.

You don't need me telling you "positive" things from the porn industry, why? This thread is ABOUT porn, why wouldn't I use this opportunity to enlighten people from my perspective, being as I work in the industry?

...Or would you in fact rather delude yourself into thinking it's nothing but trafficking and rape and suffering to better aid your plight in NoFap?

 

This is horrible...God...

 

Do i really need to repeat it? DO I REALLY?

Yes the "industry". I am disgusted even calling it like that. America and your "industry" is not entire world. I am from eastern Europe which is transit for human trafficking and also a source. I relay on many sources not just "one" study. Porn is bad and that is fact. If that wasn't the truth we would not had this place.
Allot of psychopaths were intelligent, intelligence has nothing to do with it.

This is simply not true, relationship based on voayerism can not be healthy what so ever and yet there are allot of examples where porn destroys families like any other addiction.

No i do not need to hear "positive" things from porn because it is not rule but exception and it does not change anything about majority which is bad.
Like i said i personally do not have problem because i have strong power of will and if decide something i do it but most of guys are not like that and they do not need you to advocate for porn.
That porn is bad is not my personal opinion it is fact.

And at the end, you claim to be performer. WHO ARE YOU?

 

Calm. Down.

...Holy shit.

You rely on "many" sources, yet you cannot tolerate someone saying anything positive about it, despite the fact they are working in it?

No, "porn is bad" is not fact. It is your opinion, and merely that.

Porn addiction is very different to a healthy approach to viewing, whether alone, or as a couple, though I'm sure you can't digest that point... And again, "can not be healthy" is your opinion. It's no fact.

Stop saying it's fact, lol! It simply isn't!

You're set in your ways with that one though, so there's not much point arguing with a brick wall.

Wow! What? Now there's a sketchy question! Who am I? You want to know my performer name? My real name? Either way, for reasons of decency and safety I'm not disclosing either here.

Other than that, it's like I said in my first post - I was simply curious.

 

Yes! Who the hell are you? You obviously advocate for porn here claiming to be performer. Your presence here is allot more than curiosity. You try to convince people in something that obviously is not true! You keep saying "that is my personal opinion", NO IT IS NOT. I already told you that eastern Europe where i live is transit and source of human trafficking and allot of those poor girls end up in low budget porn hooked on drugs and at the end dead! Your American "industry" is not world it is merely a speck and it is rotten as any other porn "industry".
So who are you? If you are performer, millions already saw your genitalia, what is the problem saying your name and proving it? This way you are just a troll posing as someone else.
WHO ARE YOU?

 

I made myself quite clear the first time, did I not?

"Obviously not true", here you go again.

This is the thing though, you are remarking on human trafficking in Eastern Europe, and you are commenting on "American industry" porn. I already stated how it isn't black and white, and how yes, there are terrible instances of suffering in this industry (which would include the trafficking of which you speak), and also instances in this same industry (as a whole) where things are ran extremely well.

You are cherry picking by acknowledging only the bad, and point-blank refusing to acknowledge that there could be areas of this industry which are ran extremely well.

Creepy. Seriously.. You're on NoFap's forum asking an adult performer her fucking name. Repeatedly.

Let's be real here, me telling you my name wouldn't prove anything now, would it? I could tell you I'm Sasha Grey and how would you know I'm being honest? So what purpose does telling you my name serve? Other than supplying you with fap material on a NoFap site?

 

Do you think it is impossible for anyone to possibly - genuinely and sincerely - enjoy being a sex worker?

 

Your logic is twisted! I do not need your name to jerk on it. I am asking you to prove your identity not just to tell who are you because you pose as porn performer advocating for porn "industry" spreading lies! Like i said if you are truly performer millions already saw your genitalia so what is the problem proving your identity on this forum? You already posted allot of triggering material! This way you are just a troll who tries to justify and rationalize your own masturbation/porn problem by reflecting it to the others trying to convince other people that it's ok! It is not OK, that's why we come here!
You twist my words on purpose because you are running out of arguments! I am not commenting only US porn "industry" i am talking about porn in general and FYI many poor girls from Europe end up in America!

I am going to keep reporting you until you get banned!