PUA doesn’t work , idea of "power” does

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PUA doesn’t work , idea of "power” does
Dating is a battle for "power" and is essential for our instincts. This is not power over the opposite sex, but rather your internal self power and how you internalize it or externalize it to gain dates.

• All relationships with women are concentrated into one concept - subconscious power. It works trying to date them, and they use power and status among each other.
• Whether you approach a woman and introduce yourself or are the woman flaunting her new nails. Power is essential to our biology and also works our limbic system.
• Simply put, my objective is to get you internalize your interests without letting her realize it.

Power in the dating world is simple - Do not let her take your power at all costs. Men who give away power tend to show females they are weak and insecure about themselves. They will always follow them and not lead them as their man.

Let's analyze some scenarios and concepts:

1. Compliments: You may see PUA videos saying that you need pick up lines in order to create rapport with a girl.Wrong. As soon as you walk over and complement her you’ve lost .“Hi Um....I just wanted to say your beautiful. I had to come over and talk.” Your done and you’ve already lost.
Why? I just told her she was pretty. WRONG. By saying that compliment you’ve given her the advantage and given her your power by not placing yourself on her level. You’ve placed her above you by already affirming she is better looking than you. You’ve fed into her ego and not given her a challenge. She won’t want you. She wants a man who can lead her and who can show her that he will always not subdue himself to others. By immediately giving into her ego you’ve proved your not willing to lead her nor willing to be challenge for her. This is why you should never walk up to a random girl and compliment her.

2. Staring: We all like to look at the girl we like. Sometimes we stare and we are afraid she might notice. But staring isn't a good thing. If you see your crush quickly glance for a second. Don’t stare or look too much at her. By staring at her, you’ve already subconsciously given her your power.
Why?: staring is a form of flattery and admiration, she's cute! Staring says “I think your attractive and can’t keep my eyes off you” You’ve already confirmed she is in control. Subconsciously you've triggered her fight or flight response and you'll be perceived as a threat. We also have the tendancy to avert your body position toward her. You should subtly point your body away from her. Some women can just sense someone staring at them. She’ll subconsciously perceive it as a threat thus taking your power and giving her the advantage. A quick glance will do.

3. Want to go out? NO.: We've all asked a girl "I like you, could you go out with me"
But what we are asking for is permission to date her and giving her the power of the choice. We are "asking" and showing we need the option of others to make a choice for us. Use "would" and lead the conversation instead of asking for her permission, not giving her the option to say NO. Lets observe. In some text messages.

You: "We should hang out sometime. It would be fun."
Stacy: "Sure "
You: "Where would you want to go?" (Now your leading the conversation by asking a question, not permission)
Stacy: "I Don't know. Surprise me! ) (Allow her to choose from a few options in her favor)
You: "Would you want to go to Stars Coffee, or your favorite restaurant?"
Stacy: "Coffee sounds good."
You: "I'm off Monday. 8:00 works for me.I'll see you there" (You've set a time and date, you've also set an expectation. if she likes you she will make time for you"

4. Jealousy not flattery. "Oh wow. Cute dress. I really like a blonde in a dress." YOU LOST. By tapping into a woman's mind through her emotions you have a better chance of getting her because you're showing yourself as a challenge. She will quite literally have guys complimenting her all day. Complimenting and saying what you like is too direct and forward. There's nothing underneath the surface, no mystery, no stirring of emotions for her to strive for you and show you off to her friends. You need to create that need. By mentioning another woman is cute and also mentioning a slight opinion you can make her want you.
Example - (Both of you are walking downtown, and see a hot blonde walk by and you look back at her) "You know. I'm not really into blondes, but she was pretty cute."
This shows her she's not your type and she doesn't know why. It also shows her that somebody else was cuter than she was which creates jealousy. She'll have to try harder for you. The power of the situation and the power of her wanting you is now in your control.

I hope you guys like my advice. Hopefully, you can learn from it. This is my first blog post and I will be making much more for the NoFap community.

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Thank you

TURBO

 

I'm really glad you guys liked it.

This is just some stuff I've been looking into for a friend. I'm married dudes.
Been here, done this lol.

This was more for fun and to help out some single guys.I'm glad it got some good feedback!