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Make your plan to reach 90 days !

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by 鱼菌熊, Apr 3, 2020.

  1. 鱼菌熊

    鱼菌熊 Fapstronaut

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    First of all, it is important to know that masturbation movies, like smoking cessation video games, are hugely addictive, and masturbation is more addictive than the former. Few people can quit at once. So when we fail, do not blame ourselves too much, but should pay attention to reflection and summary, such as why I failed? For example, this failure may fail because I saw seductive pictures on the Internet when I was bored, then I have to correct this bad habit of surfing the Internet when I am bored. Why do you do this? is it multiple times? No, some studies have shown that correcting bad habits alone is easy to relapse, and if you replace it with good habits, then this progress will be easy. At first, I only quit for several weeks, but I summary the reason and avoid it. As a beginner, your brain has developed a habit of fapping. You will think back to the pictures and porn. What you need to do is delete your video and pictures collection. If you are unwilling to give up, you should think about what you really want: a healthier life or the pleasure of a moment and the slave of desire. Then you will feel a delicate feeling,for example you are itchy, or you think I can't stop I 'm going to fap. Be careful! This is a withdrawal reaction, the thoughts aren't you, It's the demon inside!How to deal with it? You should repeat this sentence: When you start, you stop. When you don't start, you feel. When you don't start, you feel nothing. Or you can read the Bible,(In China we read Buddhist scriptures it really works) Second you should look through NOFAP forums daily and write down the good sentence. This is an imperceptible process, by constantly learning the experience and harm of successful people, your mind will be purified, and very few bad thoughts will come into being.
    #2About the plan. You can first set up a little goal like 90 days. That because 90 days is a cycle in which your brain restarts. I won't say much about this. Second, take up a hobby like Bodybuilding or reading. Keep on it! Third look through the NOFAP forums or other articles about the way to quit porn or the bad influence about fapping. This is the most important! You shouldn't spend a long time read the articles in one day in other words you should read articles about 20 minutes but keep on it every day.
     
  2. Tottoro

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    Reached 90 days!

    老铁 , 你是在中国哪里呢?
     
  3. pitme

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    Thanks for this bro, I agree with the aspect of replacing with a good habit. I recommend highly working out.
     
  4. 鱼菌熊

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    山东烟台,如果有条件可以直接去戒色吧看看。哪里的理论相当成熟,而且有不少前辈指点。
     
  5. Tottoro

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    是吗? 我去看看. 谢谢.
    反正山东的煎饼真的好吃!!请给我送一条吧
     
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  7. hollyman

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    may i ask u guys something, im not being racist here just want to clarify something

    1. i hear the news that the "wuhan wet market" is re open for the bussiness. believe that china ppl already defeat the virus and the origin from USA not china, is that true? is the wet market opened again ?


    2. what wrong with Uyghur ? do you people only hate Uyghur or just hate all the Muslim ?


    but if u are not a mainland then sorry for the question
    xie xie
     
  8. 鱼菌熊

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    1 The market hasn't opened up to now. And the problem isn't the market but some people eat wild animals. China government already takes measures to protect wildlife. Some people speculate that the virus originated from wild animals, but it is not clear yet. The epidemic in the United States is not spread by China, so some people speculate that the epidemic may have originated in the United States. I don't know about this problem.
    2. I just not mention Muslims in my articles, because the number of Muslims is relatively some in China. I am not racist neither. There is no racism in China, the nation is equal and people have freedom of belief.Thanks for your understand.
     
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  9. hollyman

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    good to hear that bro


    and i just hope that after this.. ur goverment really take precaution on this matter

    and not planing to threat my country too.... before this China threat to our sea teritorry. but the virus outbreak stop em

    - make life not war bro-
     
  10. Karl-95

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    Thanks for advice man! I also have a question about your country. Is the truth about porn and masturbation more widespread and accessible in China or is it a secret like in the West? I mean, in Europe and America people are constantly brainwashed by the media that porn is good, masturbation is healthy and that there are no benefits of abstinence. They’ve introduced some anti-porn measures in a few American states but generally masturbation is promoted as something that everyone should do. What are mainstream opinions in China?
     

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