Time to become real men.

Strongly agree with you, it saddens me that this section is the less cared about section in the forum, and the fact that a lot of people here sometimes post some crazy ideas that drive other people away
I'm at day 25 semen retention now, it's a lifestyle to be honest, doing it makes you reconsider your whole life, physicaly and spiritually
Will I do it for the rest of my life? I don't think so, maybe when I get married I will have sex once in a month or something, I think this is reasonable, still a sacrifice but I'm not gonna lie, I love women, but who knows, maybe I'll change my mind when I reach that point
But for now and the coming times, I'm here, and regarding porn and masturbation, I will do my best to not fall into it's traps again, self pleasing is destructive

 

I agree with you , i have made the decision not to ejaculate again. So far I have succeeded and i have no intention of failing.
Semen retention is vital to a healthy life. I have found a lot of inner peace from it .
Too many men on this site are obsessed with chasing after females, it is a road to a life of frustration and despair .
The right woman will find you if that is what you are looking for.
It is important to stop lusting and leering after females, see them and move your mind on. Clean your mind .
Society has convinced many men that without a woman and sex they are incomplete , this is simply Not true.
Grow yourself , find your inner self ,you will find contentment.

 

You know even though semen retention is something still isn't scientifically backed up, I mean there's not many studies on it, but there's something about it which I can't explain, whenever I'm retaining I feel like I'm in alignment with nature, with the universe, there's something so right about this which I can't put my finger on, most people get sarcastic when you say something like this, they don't understand
I don't know if it's the semen, the balancing of brain chemicals, or the spiritual growth because of the absence of self pleasing, whatever it may be, semen retention is legit, and I believe everyone that tries it for some time will want to still do it, will know how draining ejaculating and orgasms are, but sex still wins over most people's minds, too hard to resist these days because of the frickin media
I wanna go far this time to understand this better and see what's waiting for me, I'm done with porn and masturbation, it's been a year of fighting, I've become wiser and stronger, and being single, it's the right time
If you haven't already, then I reccomend you reading the book "the coiled serpent" ,I don't really agree with some of it's ideas or how it's presented, but the insights are trully interesting and powerful

 

fellow soldiers this article might be of help, be strong, and continue this wonderful quest.

https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/6-years-clean-rebooting-as-the-best-remedy.135983/

 

Likewise, I too intend to stop ejaculation entirely. I have not been very successful so far, but I see not useful purpose for the ejaculation other than for procreation. With that exception, I REALLY agree with the original poster's title. It is time to be a real man. Cumming is for little boys.

 

for those who are looking for scientific studies on semen retention, there are some click here.
https://selfdefinition.org/celibacy/bernard/contents.htm

 

Thanks for sharing man, if you have other beneficial links and sources try collecting them and posting them in one post, it would be highly appreciated

 

Yes it is by far my longest, this time I made a real commitment to stop. The time was right for me to stop.
This time My mind was totally committed to it, no doubts .
That is no to say there have been times of extreme urges and temptations but have not failed in my quest .
I am now in charge of my urges , they do not control me.
So what I am trying to say is total, no doubt commitment , is the only way .

 

count me in. the biggest pussy thread in this forum is the loneliness and dating section.

 

Yes

 

Real men do not need females , females need real men.

 

FANTASTIC QUOTE. I hope I may borrow that in the future.

 

Be determined and have no doubt in your mind. Who is in charge of your urges and desires ?
Take control of your mind and body.